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How old were you when you first fell in love?

10 or younger
35
13%
11-12
33
12%
13-15
94
34%
16-19
89
33%
20-25
15
5%
26 or older
7
3%
 
Total votes : 273

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Postby Drekka » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:51 pm

The Mechanan Race wrote:I was 7. Girl named Chandler. Gave her this special valentine day card. Didn't work so well, because she tore it up in my face and threw it in the trash. A simple no would have sufficed.




WOW. Cold little....

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Postby Drekka » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:53 pm

Isolated China wrote:
Drekka wrote:17

Nothing yet *forever alone

Then become Isolated. Thats what I did!



I dont want to become isolated but for some reason, I have some sort of anti-mojo.

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Postby Bitchkitten » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:56 pm

My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.

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Postby Drekka » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:56 pm

LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)



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Postby Drekka » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:57 pm

Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.



Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

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Postby Newmoonrising » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:58 pm

Drekka wrote:
Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.



Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

BK is a she.

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Postby Lackadaisical2 » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:58 pm

18 or 19, I wouldn't say it was something I fell into so much as grew into. Thats not to say I didn't have crushes before, but I never knew anyone nearly well enough to say I loved them, in a romantic sense.
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Postby Bitchkitten » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:02 pm

Drekka wrote:
Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.



Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

I'm a sister, dude.

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Postby Newmoonrising » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:04 pm

Bitchkitten wrote:
Drekka wrote:

Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

I'm a sister, dude.

Prepare to get hit on.

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Postby Erinkita » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:11 pm

I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be. :roll:
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Postby Trotskylvania » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:22 pm

New England and The Maritimes wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:Yeah. I must admit, it bewilders me. There are times where it seems like a miracle that anyone ever has a requited love.

I've only ever experienced it once, and she was a lesbian I met on the internet. So still doomed from the start, but just by biology.


I think it might be not as straightforward as it appears. I feel it must be that they find someone who loves them, at which point they realize it's so rare to find a person who actually loves you, and decide to fake it until it becomes real.

I'm not sure it's really faking it, personally. I think love is something that can be learned or developed or however you want to put it.

That's a cynical answer. It's probably true. :(
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Postby Meryuma » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:31 pm

Drekka wrote:LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)



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It's hardly obscure.
Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be. :roll:


At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.
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Postby Erinkita » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:34 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be. :roll:


At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

:lol: I didn't know we were including celebrity crushes. In that case, my first love was Kermit the Frog.
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Postby Newmoonrising » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:35 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Drekka wrote:LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)



(Image)





10 internet points if you know what that is.


It's hardly obscure.
Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be. :roll:


At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

You're a girl? :blink:

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Postby Trotskylvania » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:37 pm

Newmoonrising wrote:
Meryuma wrote:
It's hardly obscure.


At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

You're a girl? :blink:

Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.
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Postby The Rich Port » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:37 pm

Her name was Maria Rubí.

We were both in Kindergarten.

She thought kissing was icky until she kissed me.

._. I feel sad now remembering her.
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Postby Utianova » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:39 pm

I've never had strong enough feelings towards another person to call it love. But I do love myself.
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Postby Des Omega » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:45 pm

15-16. Dated for about a year total.
Don't really know what happened to end it.
It was a really, really odd relationship anyway, according to everyone who ever knew us.

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Postby Suidwes-Afrika » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:45 pm

Personally, I don't believe anyone can "fall in love" with a member of the opposite sex until they are of adult age (17, 18, or over). Anything before that and it's mostly what I would define as "infatuation". People are too young to understand true love, in the context of romance.
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Postby Meryuma » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:46 pm

Trotskylvania wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:You're a girl? :blink:

Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.


Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.
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Potarius wrote:
Neo Arcad wrote:Gravity is a natural phenomenon by which physical bodies attract with a force proportional to their mass.


In layman's terms, orgy time.


Niur wrote: my soul has no soul.


Saint Clair Island wrote:The English language sucks. From now on, I will refer to the second definition of sexual as "fucktacular."


Trotskylvania wrote:Alternatively, we could go on an epic quest to Plato's Cave to find the legendary artifact, Ockham's Razor.



Norstal wrote:Gunpowder Plot: America.

Meryuma: "Well, I just hope these hyperboles don't...

*puts on sunglasses*

blow out of proportions."

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Postby Newmoonrising » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:47 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.


Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.

That makes more sense.

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Postby New England and The Maritimes » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:48 pm

Suidwes-Afrika wrote:Personally, I don't believe anyone can "fall in love" with a member of the opposite sex until they are of adult age (17, 18, or over). Anything before that and it's mostly what I would define as "infatuation". People are too young to understand true love, in the context of romance.


Horse shit. I doubt you could even define love, let alone decide what age you're allowed to have it. Anyway, I would say most people under 30 and a lot of people older than that are obviously going to have a hard time discerning love from infatuation, because it takes experience with both to really understand what they are.
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Postby Meryuma » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:48 pm

Newmoonrising wrote:
Meryuma wrote:
Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.

That makes more sense.


Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?
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Potarius wrote:
Neo Arcad wrote:Gravity is a natural phenomenon by which physical bodies attract with a force proportional to their mass.


In layman's terms, orgy time.


Niur wrote: my soul has no soul.


Saint Clair Island wrote:The English language sucks. From now on, I will refer to the second definition of sexual as "fucktacular."


Trotskylvania wrote:Alternatively, we could go on an epic quest to Plato's Cave to find the legendary artifact, Ockham's Razor.



Norstal wrote:Gunpowder Plot: America.

Meryuma: "Well, I just hope these hyperboles don't...

*puts on sunglasses*

blow out of proportions."

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

...so here's your future

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Postby Newmoonrising » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:49 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:That makes more sense.


Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?

Because I'm a ladder nation of Altamirus, who has known you before and you have always said that you are a boy.

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Postby New England and The Maritimes » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:49 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:That makes more sense.


Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?


I'd guess he was more confused because he misread that post and recalled you referring to yourself as male some time or another.
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