Your first love

by **Soviet Russia Republic** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 2:47 am

I made the mistske falling in love with my ex-best friend when I 12...or somewhere around that age.

by **Georgizm** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 2:55 am

Haven't yet.

Posts · by **Yohannes** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:06 am

I was 13 back then.

by **The United City-States** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:04 am

Kingdom of Gilead wrote:I was 18 years old when I fell for this girl at my school. Her name was Christina and we became great friends but I didn't have the courage to ask her out. One day I actually did build up enough courage to attempt to ask her but I chickened out at the last minute and ended up just shooting the shit with her for a few minutes.. and I'll regret that decision for the rest of my life because she passed away that night in a car accident. If only I had asked her out, she'd be alive today. Fuck.

Ouch. I'm really sorry. I hate to hear that.

by **Aestherra** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:16 am

THANX guys! I hope the best for everybody here!

by **Aestherra** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:20 am

Kingdom of Gilead wrote:I was 18 years old when I fell for this girl at my school. Her name was Christina and we became great friends but I didn't have the courage to ask her out. One day I actually did build up enough courage to attempt to ask her but I chickened out at the last minute and ended up just shooting the shit with her for a few minutes.. and I'll regret that decision for the rest of my life because she passed away that night in a car accident. If only I had asked her out, she'd be alive today. Fuck.

That's awful.

I'm truly sorry. Don't keep bearing that burden though. I don't think I've EVER met a person to where they lost a loved one & DIDN'T blame something to do with it on themselves or not regret saying something, so don't hold it against yourself. I hope the best for you.

by **Kington Langley** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:33 am

I view love as an annoyance to be honest and therefore have never looked for anyone.

by **Vorond** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 4:45 am

I am unsure as to when it actually was, or rather inhowfar one does define that status. All boils down to the definition, a question to which I have yet to find a valid answer. I often find myself thinking that all the fuzz is not really worth it...I suppise the moment when that opinion changes would adequately define the answer though.

Oh, and of course it ended in desaster. And of course I was an idiot.

by **Trotskylvania** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 5:02 am

Kington Langley wrote:I view love as an annoyance to be honest and therefore have never looked for anyone.

Love is like a rake left tines up on the ground. If you're not looking for it, sooner or later you'll step on it and it'll come up and smack you right in the face.

by **Aestherra** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 5:11 am

Trotskylvania wrote:
Kington Langley wrote:I view love as an annoyance to be honest and therefore have never looked for anyone.

Love is like a rake left tines up on the ground. If you're not looking for it, sooner or later you'll step on it and it'll come up and smack you right in the face.

Could be very true.

by **Nyoronet** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:26 am

by **The United City-States** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:27 am

Nyoronet wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:Don't give up.

It's been two years and people keep disappointing.

I know how you feel, and yes, I get down sometimes, but you just got to keep going, even though it all may seem lost at times

by **Horsefish** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:31 am

Georgizm wrote:Haven't yet.

<3

I don't think I have fallen fully in love. I was certainly enamored with my ex but I don't think I actully loved her in the end.

by **French Union** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:42 am

Hell No. Love stands against my main beliefs and I view love as one the great weakness a person can have. You know how easy it is to manipulate a person when they "love" you, and think you "love" them back?

by **Coffee Cakes** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:09 am

Trotskylvania wrote:
Nyoronet wrote:18. A girl named Caroline... She destroyed me though. :/

Know that feeling, though it wasn't the first love that did that. I've found though, it's blessing if viewed right. Being reduced to rubble makes rebuilding yourself into something better easier.

Sigged.

by **Vellosia** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:13 am

Probably about 15-17, to be honest. But it was unattainable.

by **Coffee Cakes** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:18 am

Vellosia wrote:Probably about 15-17, to be honest. But it was unattainable.

16 and same problem... she was way out of my league...

by **Liberatarians** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:19 am

Coffee Cakes wrote:
Vellosia wrote:Probably about 15-17, to be honest. But it was unattainable.

16 and same problem... she was way out of my league...

Girls are never out of a guys' league, more the opposite. But they don't want to admit it, so they invented feminism.

by **Vellosia** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:19 am

Coffee Cakes wrote:
Vellosia wrote:Probably about 15-17, to be honest. But it was unattainable.

16 and same problem... she was way out of my league...

More because he was as straight as they come (I expect you can guess who I mean, CC). Not to mention he was (and is) my best friend.

by **Imperial--japan** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:20 am

13......I was really naive back then......

by **Pottslande** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:22 am

I was 15, basically fell for a best friend. We've been romantically together almost a year so far

by **Poppy Hill** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:29 am

The first time I liked someone, I was ten I think. Either that or nine. I remember it was back in fourth grade though.

Got my first girlfriend though at 13.

by **Coffee Cakes** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:33 am

Vellosia wrote:
Coffee Cakes wrote:
16 and same problem... she was way out of my league...

More because he was as straight as they come (I expect you can guess who I mean, CC). Not to mention he was (and is) my best friend.

Yep.

But at least you still talk to him.

I haven't talked to her in months...

by **Vellosia** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:36 am

Coffee Cakes wrote:
Vellosia wrote:
More because he was as straight as they come (I expect you can guess who I mean, CC). Not to mention he was (and is) my best friend.

Yep.
But at least you still talk to him.

I haven't talked to her in months...

Heh, life's like that sometimes. The fact that he chose to remain best friends with me despite it is more than testament to the person he is.

Some people are worse than others, and life loves playing you. But you have to keep on trudging.

by **Coffee Cakes** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:38 am

Vellosia wrote:
Coffee Cakes wrote:
Yep.
But at least you still talk to him.

I haven't talked to her in months...

Heh, life's like that sometimes. The fact that he chose to remain best friends with me despite it is more than testament to the person he is.

Some people are worse than others, and life loves playing you. But you have to keep on trudging.

Indeed.

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