Your first love

by **Drekka** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:51 pm

The Mechanan Race wrote:I was 7. Girl named Chandler. Gave her this special valentine day card. Didn't work so well, because she tore it up in my face and threw it in the trash. A simple no would have sufficed.

WOW. Cold little....

by **Drekka** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:53 pm

Isolated China wrote:
Drekka wrote:17

Nothing yet *forever alone

Then become Isolated. Thats what I did!

I dont want to become isolated but for some reason, I have some sort of anti-mojo.

by **Bitchkitten** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:56 pm

My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.

by **Drekka** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:56 pm

LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)

10 internet points if you know what that is.

by **Drekka** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:57 pm

Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.

Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

by **Newmoonrising** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:58 pm

Drekka wrote:
Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.

Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

BK is a she.

by **Lackadaisical2** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:58 pm

18 or 19, I wouldn't say it was something I fell into so much as grew into. Thats not to say I didn't have crushes before, but I never knew anyone nearly well enough to say I loved them, in a romantic sense.

by **Bitchkitten** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:02 pm

Drekka wrote:
Bitchkitten wrote:My step-sister. We had relationship for six years, thoughout our teens. Until I moved out at 20.

Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

I'm a sister, dude.

by **Newmoonrising** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:04 pm

Bitchkitten wrote:
Drekka wrote:

Thats a fetish come true. Rock on bro

I'm a sister, dude.

Prepare to get hit on.

by **Erinkita** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:11 pm

I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be. :roll:

by **Trotskylvania** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:22 pm

New England and The Maritimes wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:Yeah. I must admit, it bewilders me. There are times where it seems like a miracle that anyone ever has a requited love.

I've only ever experienced it once, and she was a lesbian I met on the internet. So still doomed from the start, but just by biology.

I think it might be not as straightforward as it appears. I feel it must be that they find someone who loves them, at which point they realize it's so rare to find a person who actually loves you, and decide to fake it until it becomes real.

I'm not sure it's really faking it, personally. I think love is something that can be learned or developed or however you want to put it.

That's a cynical answer. It's probably true.

by **Meryuma** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:31 pm

Drekka wrote:LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)

(Image)

10 internet points if you know what that is.

It's hardly obscure.

Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be.

At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

by **Erinkita** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:34 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be.

At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

I didn't know we were including celebrity crushes. In that case, my first love was Kermit the Frog.

by **Newmoonrising** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:35 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Drekka wrote:LOL. Last 2 posts by me.

Hell... I need a drink ( of chocolate milk. not 221 yet lol)

(Image)

10 internet points if you know what that is.

It's hardly obscure.
Erinkita wrote:I don't know if you'd call it love, but that's how it felt to me, back in the hazy days of youth. As with all great tragic romances, my love was unrequited. I was 8 and recently removed from my biological mother's care. Scared, vulnerable, confused. Living with foster parents for the first time. He was their 20-year-old biological son with a gorgeous smile and a motorcycle. Alas, it was not to be.

At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

You're a girl? :blink:

by **Trotskylvania** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:37 pm

Newmoonrising wrote:
Meryuma wrote:
It's hardly obscure.

At least you knew the guy. The first person I fell in love with when I was 12 was Thom Yorke, and my metaphorical fangirlism returns during periods of loneliness and Radiohead listening.

You're a girl?

Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.

by **The Rich Port** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:37 pm

Her name was Maria Rubí.

We were both in Kindergarten.

She thought kissing was icky until she kissed me.

._. I feel sad now remembering her.

by **Utianova** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:39 pm

I've never had strong enough feelings towards another person to call it love. But I do love myself.

by **Des Omega** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:45 pm

15-16. Dated for about a year total.
Don't really know what happened to end it.
It was a really, really odd relationship anyway, according to everyone who ever knew us.

by **Suidwes-Afrika** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:45 pm

Personally, I don't believe anyone can "fall in love" with a member of the opposite sex until they are of adult age (17, 18, or over). Anything before that and it's mostly what I would define as "infatuation". People are too young to understand true love, in the context of romance.

by **Meryuma** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:46 pm

Trotskylvania wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:You're a girl?

Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.

Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.

by **Newmoonrising** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:47 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:Keyword "metaphorical". Fangirling has very different connotations from fanboying. It usually has some sort of romantic overtone of some sort.

Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.

That makes more sense.

by **New England and The Maritimes** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:48 pm

Suidwes-Afrika wrote:Personally, I don't believe anyone can "fall in love" with a member of the opposite sex until they are of adult age (17, 18, or over). Anything before that and it's mostly what I would define as "infatuation". People are too young to understand true love, in the context of romance.

Horse shit. I doubt you could even define love, let alone decide what age you're allowed to have it. Anyway, I would say most people under 30 and a lot of people older than that are obviously going to have a hard time discerning love from infatuation, because it takes experience with both to really understand what they are.

by **Meryuma** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:48 pm

Newmoonrising wrote:
Meryuma wrote:
Exactly.

I am a metaphorical fangirl in that I am not a girl.

That makes more sense.

Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?

by **Newmoonrising** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:49 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:That makes more sense.

Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?

Because I'm a ladder nation of Altamirus, who has known you before and you have always said that you are a boy.

by **New England and The Maritimes** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:49 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Newmoonrising wrote:That makes more sense.

Why do you think it would be weird for me to be a girl?

I'd guess he was more confused because he misread that post and recalled you referring to yourself as male some time or another.

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