How do you know you are gay

[Patoma]

Quite an interesting point of view you people have all brought up. I think then that based on the many philosophy that many of you have on this subject, I think many of you will then agree with me that a person's sexual orientation is not exactly stable until the person is dead. Since a person can develop a sexual attraction to a specific group of people any time, then you should not consider yourself either straight or gay because there is potential to poses more.

[Spookytown (Ancient)]

I've always been under the impression that your only gay if you push back...Ha, I kid, I think its something you just know.

[The Truth and Light]

I've always been under the impression that your only gay if you push back...Ha, I kid, I think its something you just know.

Some people are gay as fuck and they don't have a clue. Seriously.

[Volnotova]

Bi.

I knew I liked both sexes from an early age.

[Spookytown (Ancient)]

I've always been under the impression that your only gay if you push back...Ha, I kid, I think its something you just know.

Some people are gay as fuck and they don't have a clue. Seriously.

Thats true. I mean for people who self-identify as gay...At least thats my experience.

[Episarta]

How do I know I am gay? Because I find guys sexually attractive and most women to be annoying and ugly. It's a natural instinct to me, I find the males much more pleasing to the eye. I am no expert on this, but I believe I have read that when you are attracted to someone, that means subconsiously or instinctively they have good genes. Hmm...

[Tmutarakhan]

Who haunts your dreams?

[William Delaney III]

I have been here for quite a while now and I have notice that there are quite a few gay people on this forum. Although, I know that being gay his most likely due to per-occurrence and not something that most gays chose, I am unsure how it must feel to be gay and how you particularly know that you are gay? I find it very fascinating to try to engage in discussion that relate to sexual orientation because I believe it is an issue that divide the world so much today.

Well, I'm an authority on that, considering that I myself am a gay guy! Har-har!

You want a good look at the lower rings of Hell? Read a little bit about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Just spend a while reading about it, and then consider the rest of what I have to say.

OCD and the need for sexual intimacy work very similarly in the human brain, and they are alike in our subjective experiences of them. If you are a gay man, you will find in time that you cannot walk through a crowd without evaluating the characteristics of people of the same sex who happen to be there. When you masturbate in the morning to remedy your morning wood, you will not be able to ward off images that quite frankly you DON'T WANT while doing so.

Suppose that there is a guy that you know that you find yourself attracted to. You might think that you can put it out of your mind, but in the end you will find yourself in the pathetic and pitiable position of writing love letters and throwing them into the fireplace as quickly as you can finish penning them.

In time, you'll find yourself turning to look at your rear-end in the mirror. It's really quite embarrassing to realize that you are doing it, but here is the thing: in the primitive part of your mind, it really is that important.

But you know what? Gay guys don't have to go through a single thing, left to their own devices, that straight people don't have to deal with. In the end, it's just as obvious if you are gay as it is that you are attracted to the opposite sex if you are straight.

But imagine if, instead of being praised for it, suddenly half the people in your life will either be devastated or never want to talk to you again. Lower rings of Hell, man.

[EvilDarkMagicians]

cause i fuck men

Wow.

I know this is highly irrational of me, but I never imagined you would be gay.

[Red Indus]

I know this is highly irrational of me, but I never imagined you would be gay.

I knew. I sensed it.

[EvilDarkMagicians]

I have been here for quite a while now and I have notice that there are quite a few gay people on this forum. Although, I know that being gay his most likely due to per-occurrence and not something that most gays chose, I am unsure how it must feel to be gay and how you particularly know that you are gay? I find it very fascinating to try to engage in discussion that relate to sexual orientation because I believe it is an issue that divide the world so much today.

How does it feel to be straight?
How do you know your straight?

If you can answer these questions, you'll answer your first two.

[Red Indus]

and if you want to know how you know if you are a woman ask yourself
how does it feel to be irate
how do you know you are irate

[1000 Cats]

Quite an interesting point of view you people have all brought up. I think then that based on the many philosophy that many of you have on this subject, I think many of you will then agree with me that a person's sexual orientation is not exactly stable until the person is dead. Since a person can develop a sexual attraction to a specific group of people any time, then you should not consider yourself either straight or gay because there is potential to poses more.

Considering it's damn near impossible to even condition an adult to switch orientation (and I only say damn near because people are still trying -_- ), I'd say it's stable enough to at least fit them in one of the four rather broad categories we typically use when labeling orientation.

[Greater Cabinda]

You suddenly have an insatiable urge to watch musicals.

[Lykiel]

As a bi female, I realized my orientation when I figured out that I like boobs. They are good things, and regularly catch my attention - that's just part of who I am. However, I am still quite fond of a certain aspect of the male anatomy, as well, and that is also part of who I am.

[Patoma]

As a bi female, I realized my orientation when I figured out that I like boobs. They are good things, and regularly catch my attention - that's just part of who I am. However, I am still quite fond of a certain aspect of the male anatomy, as well, and that is also part of who I am.

See, this exactly the point that I was trying to make. The urge to have feeling for a specific group of people and to consider yourself to associate with more than one orientation is becoming increasing popular. Can we blame the increasing liberal values in the world for some of this new changes or it is something that mankind have within them prior to their birth. Then again, this will go to the question of nature vs nurture. I personally believe that in this case, we have no control of whom we feel attracted to and when we feel it.

[Buffett and Colbert]

When you feel the urge to fap to the same sex, that's one indication.

[Bottle]

I have been here for quite a while now and I have notice that there are quite a few gay people on this forum. Although, I know that being gay his most likely due to per-occurrence and not something that most gays chose, I am unsure how it must feel to be gay and how you particularly know that you are gay? I find it very fascinating to try to engage in discussion that relate to sexual orientation because I believe it is an issue that divide the world so much today.

How do you know you're not?

[The Warrior Hearted]

you could watch all types of porn

whichever one you like most is a pretty good inclination of where you point

[The Truth and Light]

you could watch all types of porn

whichever one you like most is a pretty good inclination of where you point

Nah. Sometimes I just watch it for a good laugh.

[Buffett and Colbert]

you could watch all types of porn

whichever one you like most is a pretty good inclination of where you point

Nah. Sometimes I just watch it for a good laugh.

I don't understand how straight/lesbian porn is funny.

[The Warrior Hearted]

Nah. Sometimes I just watch it for a good laugh.

I don't understand how straight/lesbian porn is funny.

lesbian porn can be funny,


depends on what they are doing in it

[The Truth and Light]

Nah. Sometimes I just watch it for a good laugh.

I don't understand how straight/lesbian porn is funny.

Because it's so fucking ridiculous. Seriously.

[Bottle]

I don't understand how straight/lesbian porn is funny.

Because it's so fucking ridiculous. Seriously.

Let's be honest, here:

All porn is pretty ridiculous. Funny faces, sloppy noise, and goo everywhere. Fucking is fucking ridiculous.

EDIT: And I say this as a bisexual who is fond of porn.

[The Truth and Light]

Because it's so fucking ridiculous. Seriously.

Let's be honest, here:

All porn is pretty ridiculous. Funny faces, sloppy noise, and goo everywhere. Fucking is fucking ridiculous.

Too fucking true.