How do you know you are gay

[Vorradia]

Your ability to turn stereotypes in on themselves is impressive.

i agree

[New Ceausist Romania]

"Do you like wipping a guy's naked butt with a wet towel, in the locker room?...You're Gay," to semi-quote Bill Murray from an old SNL skit.

[Norstal]

Or, you know, a heterosexual female human being.

And even then, you'd have to have some sort of disease.

Homosexual men don't want cock 24/7.

Yeah, they like ass too 12/3.5.

[Killikstan]

Or, you know, a heterosexual female human being.

And even then, you'd have to have some sort of disease.

Homosexual men don't want cock 24/7.

I wasn't meaning that they do. I just think it would be a pretty good indicator of you being gay. If you read the rest of my post, I make that a little more clear.


Edit: And thinking about it, if I had meant that, it's kinda hard to argue. The stereotype of straight men wanting to get laid all the time is supposedly true, and is at the very least non-offensive and well accepted. I'd imagine that gay men probably want to get laid about as often.

[The Kangaroo Republic]

And even then, you'd have to have some sort of disease.

Homosexual men don't want cock 24/7.

Yeah, they like ass too 12/3.5.

I tend to not get into the ass part.
I mean, how can some dude insert his arse up my...oh crap...
...
get it, crap?

[Norstal]

Yeah, they like ass too 12/3.5.

I tend to not get into the ass part.
I mean, how can some dude insert his arse up my...oh crap...
...
get it, crap?

Haaaaaaaaaaaah.

[The Kangaroo Republic]

I tend to not get into the ass part.
I mean, how can some dude insert his arse up my...oh crap...
...
get it, crap?

Haaaaaaaaaaaah.

Worst joke ever.

[United Dependencies]

Haaaaaaaaaaaah.

Worst joke ever.

It's pretty shitty.

[Latexsage]

Worst joke ever.

It's pretty shitty.

http://instantrimshot.com/

[William Delaney III]

It's pretty shitty.

http://instantrimshot.com/

Ctrl-d

On the "gay men not wanting cock 24/7," uh...depends. Having to keep part of yourself a secret can cause some aspects of schizotypy to show up, including an unhealthy preoccupation with sex.

Let's face it: if your life were a gray, repressive and scary nightmare of internal conflict, you would tend to be pretty over-the-top yourself if there were secret places you could go that were like a magic orange grove in the midst of the nightmare--sort of a temporary retreat from a continual maelstrom of fear, guilt, self-loathing and loneliness--and you could feel free for just a little while. The escape feels so much like a dream that it's hard to even believe that both worlds could be real. In one world, you're a horrible, filthy, hell-bound sinner. In the other, you are a being of living fire.

However, in a society where gay men are regarded more with yawns than with condemnation, it loses its glamour.

Really, if you are a heterosexual male or female and you're honestly asking yourself, "why should I care? What's in it for me? What's in it for society?" if you really can't bring yourself to truly feel compassion toward the queers, consider the possibility that being tolerant or at the very least disinterested just might help the queers behave a little more responsibly. Tolerance keeps everyone involved a little more grounded in reality.

[Patoma]

http://instantrimshot.com/

Ctrl-d

On the "gay men not wanting cock 24/7," uh...depends. Having to keep part of yourself a secret can cause some aspects of schizotypy to show up, including an unhealthy preoccupation with sex.

Let's face it: if your life were a gray, repressive and scary nightmare of internal conflict, you would tend to be pretty over-the-top yourself if there were secret places you could go that were like a magic orange grove in the midst of the nightmare--sort of a temporary retreat from a continual maelstrom of fear, guilt, self-loathing and loneliness--and you could feel free for just a little while. The escape feels so much like a dream that it's hard to even believe that both worlds could be real. In one world, you're a horrible, filthy, hell-bound sinner. In the other, you are a being of living fire.

However, in a society where gay men are regarded more with yawns than with condemnation, it loses its glamour.

Really, if you are a heterosexual male or female and you're honestly asking yourself, "why should I care? What's in it for me? What's in it for society?" if you really can't bring yourself to truly feel compassion toward the queers, consider the possibility that being tolerant or at the very least disinterested just might help the queers behave a little more responsibly. Tolerance keeps everyone involved a little more grounded in reality.

This perhaps might be the case, but I highly doubt it. Gay people tend to be more resilient therefore they will still do it regardless. You can never tell though.......

[1000 Cats]

Ctrl-d

On the "gay men not wanting cock 24/7," uh...depends. Having to keep part of yourself a secret can cause some aspects of schizotypy to show up, including an unhealthy preoccupation with sex.

Let's face it: if your life were a gray, repressive and scary nightmare of internal conflict, you would tend to be pretty over-the-top yourself if there were secret places you could go that were like a magic orange grove in the midst of the nightmare--sort of a temporary retreat from a continual maelstrom of fear, guilt, self-loathing and loneliness--and you could feel free for just a little while. The escape feels so much like a dream that it's hard to even believe that both worlds could be real. In one world, you're a horrible, filthy, hell-bound sinner. In the other, you are a being of living fire.

However, in a society where gay men are regarded more with yawns than with condemnation, it loses its glamour.

Really, if you are a heterosexual male or female and you're honestly asking yourself, "why should I care? What's in it for me? What's in it for society?" if you really can't bring yourself to truly feel compassion toward the queers, consider the possibility that being tolerant or at the very least disinterested just might help the queers behave a little more responsibly. Tolerance keeps everyone involved a little more grounded in reality.

This perhaps might be the case, but I highly doubt it. Gay people tend to be more resilient therefore they will still do it regardless. You can never tell though.......

I don't know. I can sympathize, personally (NS being an orange grove). And I wouldn't mind knowing where you got the idea that gay people tend to be more resilient.

[Patoma]

This perhaps might be the case, but I highly doubt it. Gay people tend to be more resilient therefore they will still do it regardless. You can never tell though.......

I don't know. I can sympathize, personally (NS being an orange grove). And I wouldn't mind knowing where you got the idea that gay people tend to be more resilient.

Have you seen them on TV? Well, if so, you should know

[1000 Cats]

I don't know. I can sympathize, personally (NS being an orange grove). And I wouldn't mind knowing where you got the idea that gay people tend to be more resilient.

Have you seen them on TV? Well, if so, you should know

Seen "them"? I know a very large number of gay people in real life. My experience is not limited to the boob tube.

[Bulgharia]

Aren't "gays" women? How could they fight?

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Aren't "gays" women? How could they fight?

This misconception that just because gay men like their same sex makes them into women is quite idiotic. FFS. They're still men, they're just attracted to their own sex. How is it that that seems to turn them magically into 'women' is beyond me.

[Bulgharia]

Apparently, most gays I know vanish their nails, talk from female point of talking, and etc.

[William Delaney III]

Have you seen them on TV? Well, if so, you should know

Seen "them"? I know a very large number of gay people in real life. My experience is not limited to the boob tube.

Your circle is probably more of a cross-section. Most of my people are still in the closet. For some reason, I seem to be a magnet for them. Would you believe that I knew one guy who was a rabid Pentacostal, in his 60s and HIV positive (ironically through a transfusion), and nobody in his immediate life knew? Where do I keep finding these people?

So you would probably know better what I'm talking about than I would, but the problem is getting the concept that is in my head over into your head. But I think that, if I could manage to communicate this to you, you could probably correct me on a lot of details.

Look, have you ever noticed a stark improvement in a gay guy's mental health after he came out of the closet? By that, I mean not just general happiness but being more level-headed, more responsible, taking better care of his health, better groomed, etc.? Well, that's really a large part of what I'm getting at. I think that being closeted or even having to keep part of their lives "over there" when they are not out of the closet makes it very difficult for gay men to maintain a realistic outlook.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Apparently, most gays I know vanish their nails, talk from female point of talking, and etc.

The key here being 'most gays I know'. Most gays I know are quite content being male. They're just attracted to people of their same sex.

[Bottle]

And even then, you'd have to have some sort of disease.

Homosexual men don't want cock 24/7.

I wasn't meaning that they do. I just think it would be a pretty good indicator of you being gay. If you read the rest of my post, I make that a little more clear.


Edit: And thinking about it, if I had meant that, it's kinda hard to argue. The stereotype of straight men wanting to get laid all the time is supposedly true, and is at the very least non-offensive and well accepted. I'd imagine that gay men probably want to get laid about as often.

For the record, straight men don't always want to get laid.

Some straight men do. Some straight women do, too. Some gay men and women do too. But not all, in any of the groups.

As somebody who has fucked both men and women, I've found that men aren't any more likely to want to fuck, at any given time, than women are. Men are far, far more likely to SAY that they always want sex and always think about sex, but the reality of the sex life tends to contradict this. Different men have different sex drives. Wish men were allowed to openly admit this without everyone telling them they're lying or queer.

[Killikstan]

I wasn't meaning that they do. I just think it would be a pretty good indicator of you being gay. If you read the rest of my post, I make that a little more clear.


Edit: And thinking about it, if I had meant that, it's kinda hard to argue. The stereotype of straight men wanting to get laid all the time is supposedly true, and is at the very least non-offensive and well accepted. I'd imagine that gay men probably want to get laid about as often.

For the record, straight men don't always want to get laid.

Some straight men do. Some straight women do, too. Some gay men and women do too. But not all, in any of the groups.

As somebody who has fucked both men and women, I've found that men aren't any more likely to want to fuck, at any given time, than women are. Men are far, far more likely to SAY that they always want sex and always think about sex, but the reality of the sex life tends to contradict this. Different men have different sex drives. Wish men were allowed to openly admit this without everyone telling them they're lying or queer.

Just so we're all on the same page, I do infact agree with you. I meant that as a bit of a joke, but this thread is obviously a bit too serious for that.

I am more than willing to say that I have very little interest in sex unless it's with very specific people. My girlfriend's sex drive surpasses mine by leaps and bounds. It's really nice to see someone else who is aware of that actually being a possibility.

[Ovisterra]

Aren't "gays" women? How could they fight?

Wow. A 7 word post manages to make weird, false statements about homosexuality, and be sexist at the same time. That's high density ignorance.

[Steel and Fire]

Aren't "gays" women? How could they fight?

No, you're mixing up gays and trannies (who, at least, would like to be women, although they never will be), and apparently unaware that women are on average more violent and aggressive than men (which is borne out by domestic violence statistics, iirc, although it's been a while since I saw that study).

Which is ridiculous, right? I mean everyone knows small, dainty, feminine women could never out-fight big strong men. It's yet another of those pieces of conventional wisdom that is completely wrong. Sort of like "you eat about eight spiders a year."

[1000 Cats]

Seen "them"? I know a very large number of gay people in real life. My experience is not limited to the boob tube.

Your circle is probably more of a cross-section. Most of my people are still in the closet. For some reason, I seem to be a magnet for them. Would you believe that I knew one guy who was a rabid Pentacostal, in his 60s and HIV positive (ironically through a transfusion), and nobody in his immediate life knew? Where do I keep finding these people?

So you would probably know better what I'm talking about than I would, but the problem is getting the concept that is in my head over into your head. But I think that, if I could manage to communicate this to you, you could probably correct me on a lot of details.

Look, have you ever noticed a stark improvement in a gay guy's mental health after he came out of the closet? By that, I mean not just general happiness but being more level-headed, more responsible, taking better care of his health, better groomed, etc.? Well, that's really a large part of what I'm getting at. I think that being closeted or even having to keep part of their lives "over there" when they are not out of the closet makes it very difficult for gay men to maintain a realistic outlook.

I can vouch for this.

Aren't "gays" women? How could they fight?

Wow. A 7 word post manages to make weird, false statements about homosexuality, and be sexist at the same time. That's high density ignorance.

He's demonstrated in the past that he is very, very capable of this. (Check pages around 20.)

[Bulgharia]

I don't know if homosexuality is mental illness, but zoophilia surely is.