The Halbetan Union wrote:Cthag-antil wrote:
If sexuality is a spectrum then we would expect to find all manner of wavelengths...or colours .
Perhaps we should dismiss such rigid inflexible labels...and just say that everyone has a unique fingerprint sexuality, a summary of degrees of inclinations (or repulsions) to each gender and perhaps other polarised factors such as submissiveness and dominance or age and youth.
How this sexuality comes about for me is partly nature (genotypal expression) and environment AND the circumstantial choices made...incremental choices that over time reinforce or perhaps regress a natual disposition/indisposition.
I dunno...this is all my own thought...no references,
People are under no obligation to peruse their natural preferences, and can fall in love and marry someone and have a completely platonic (or not) relationship. I don't find it hard to believe that someone can choose their sexuality. It may not be honest, but it's still theirs to choose.
I didn't choose to be straight.