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Should men and women be treated dfferently?

Men and women should be treated the same
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47%
Men and women should be treated differently but equally
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40%
Men and women should be treated differently
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6%
other
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Should men and women be treated dfferently?

Postby Arilandon » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:56 am

In today's society, women are treated better than men, often getting a less harsh sentence for crime, men are expected to open the door for women, women (and children) are the first priority in the case of a ship sinking or another emergency, and have more power in deciding whatever or not to have children. Do you support these distinctions? Or should men and women be treated the same.
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Postby Fionnuala_Saoirse » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:57 am

Ah so it's this phase in the NSG cycle
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Postby Neo Art » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:00 am

Ah yes, the most pressing concern of our era. Ships sinking.

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Postby Farnhamia » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:01 am

Fionnuala_Saoirse wrote:Ah so it's this phase in the NSG cycle

I forget, do we get the fever next?
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Postby EvilDarkMagicians » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:01 am

Yes.
The reason, why?

I have no logical reason it just feels right.

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Postby The Parkus Empire » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:02 am

I tend to treat each individual according to how his/her merits warrant. That said, I do have somewhat more of thing for women's nipples as opposed to men's.
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Postby The Murtunian Tribes » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:02 am

Confucius say: Shut up.

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Postby Arilandon » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:03 am

Fionnuala_Saoirse wrote:Ah so it's this phase in the NSG cycle

I did't make this topic as a part of any cycle :palm:

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Postby Laerod » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:03 am

Arilandon wrote:In today's society, women are treated better than men, often getting a less harsh sentence for crime,

Source please.
men are expected to open the door for women,

Everyone is expected to hold the door open for everyone, especially for the handicapped and those with their arms full. Someone that only holds the door open for women is an asshole.
women (and children) are the first priority in the case of a ship sinking,

Source for this happening please. More than "it happened on the Titanic".
and have more power in deciding whatever or not to have children.

Source please.
Do you support these distinctions? Or should men and women be treated the same.

Gonna wait until there's something of substance rather than speculation before debating it.

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Postby Farnhamia » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:05 am

Laerod wrote:
Arilandon wrote:In today's society, women are treated better than men, often getting a less harsh sentence for crime,

Source please.
men are expected to open the door for women,

Everyone is expected to hold the door open for everyone, especially for the handicapped and those with their arms full. Someone that only holds the door open for women is an asshole.
women (and children) are the first priority in the case of a ship sinking,

Source for this happening please. More than "it happened on the Titanic".
and have more power in deciding whatever or not to have children.

Source please.
Do you support these distinctions? Or should men and women be treated the same.

Gonna wait until there's something of substance rather than speculation before debating it.

"Women and children first" is kind of a meme, or was, but yeah. As for the rest, I'm surprised he hasn't blamed the Turks.
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Postby The Parkus Empire » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:06 am

Arilandon wrote:
Fionnuala_Saoirse wrote:Ah so it's this phase in the NSG cycle

I did't make this topic as a part of any cycle :palm:

Nonetheless, it fits neatly into the wave of "men's rights" threads that flood NSG during rejection season.
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Postby Neo Art » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:07 am

The Parkus Empire wrote:
Arilandon wrote:I did't make this topic as a part of any cycle :palm:

Nonetheless, it fits neatly into the wave of "men's rights" threads that flood NSG during rejection season.


So you're saying only women get to complain about being marginalized? You sexist bastard.
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Postby Xarithis » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:08 am

Arilandon wrote:often getting a less harsh sentence for crime, men are expected to open the door for women

My parents have programmed me to do this for everyone, regardless of sex.
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Postby Kobeanare » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:08 am

The Parkus Empire wrote:
Arilandon wrote:I did't make this topic as a part of any cycle :palm:

Nonetheless, it fits neatly into the wave of "men's rights" threads that flood NSG during rejection season.

Rejection season?

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Postby Laerod » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:08 am

Farnhamia wrote:"Women and children first" is kind of a meme, or was, but yeah. As for the rest, I'm surprised he hasn't blamed the Turks.

Oh, I've heard of it, I just want some statistics to see if it actually gets applied in real life. Especially in non-Western sinkings where the meme might not be known.

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Postby Flameswroth » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:09 am

I think in a general sense, we should treat each other equally, and not with any special consideration. I think a big part of the problem is not so much that we treat women nicer, but that we treat men worse...and before that upsets someone let me clarify that a bit:

We have certain actions, like opening/holding doors for people, that we often view as gestures we make towards women (if "we" are men). When you start discussing 'treat everyone equally', people seem to jump to treating women worse by ceasing to hold doors open, when the actual reaction should be holding doors open for the dudes as well. If we are to treat everyone equally, it's in bringing men up to the treatment that women get, and not reducing women to what men have.

So really, women aren't getting treated 'special', they are being treated normal. Men just need to be treated UP to that level to make things equal.

As a cherry on top, treating everyone the same in general makes your romantic gestures much more prominant. If you hold a door open for every girl, but not men, you might be doing it as a way to try and get on their good side, or you might not. That could get confusing. If you hold doors open for everyone, but only ask specific people out for coffee or something, your intention is much clearer.

So treat 'em all the same.
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Postby Neo Art » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:10 am

You know, Many times in my life I've thought "I'd gladly give away 20% of my pay and have the right wing constantly fighting to limit my reproductive rights, if only someone would occassionally leap forward to open the door for me like I'm some sort of invalid"
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Postby You-Gi-Owe » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:11 am

Differently, but with equality.

Simple biology dictates that there has to be some difference.
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Postby Arilandon » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:11 am

Laerod wrote:
Arilandon wrote:In today's society, women are treated better than men, often getting a less harsh sentence for crime,

Source please.
men are expected to open the door for women,

Everyone is expected to hold the door open for everyone, especially for the handicapped and those with their arms full. Someone that only holds the door open for women is an asshole.
women (and children) are the first priority in the case of a ship sinking,

Source for this happening please. More than "it happened on the Titanic".
and have more power in deciding whatever or not to have children.

Source please.
Do you support these distinctions? Or should men and women be treated the same.

Gonna wait until there's something of substance rather than speculation before debating it.

1. http://www.americanbar.org/publications ... rbias.html
2. Men are also expected to pay the bill on a date
3. it happened in other emergencies
4. if a women decides not to have an abortion the man is forced to be a father for that child, while if a women does't want a child she can just have an abortion
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Postby Dumb Ideologies » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:12 am

You know, I was going to throw such facts as pay disparities and the double burden placed on women - who as well as working are also expected to do the majority of domestic labour - before then going to comment how these dramatically outweigh the trivial 'disadvantages' listed on the other side, but no, fuck it. I've done this shit too many times already. Enough. I'm going to respond to this in a way entirely fitting with this idiotic endlessly repeated 'topic of the month'.

Hurrr, durrr, splurfff *table headbutt*
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Postby The Parkus Empire » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:15 am

Neo Art wrote:
The Parkus Empire wrote:Nonetheless, it fits neatly into the wave of "men's rights" threads that flood NSG during rejection season.


So you're saying only women get to complain about being marginalized? You sexist bastard.

No, God no, of course not. Women shouldn't complain 't all about being marginalized--it's the burden they must bear for looking so attractive but never noticing me for someone who's superior to their boyfriends.
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Postby Arilandon » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:15 am

The Parkus Empire wrote:
Arilandon wrote:I did't make this topic as a part of any cycle :palm:

Nonetheless, it fits neatly into the wave of "men's rights" threads that flood NSG during rejection season.

The rejection season? :eyebrow:

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Postby The Parkus Empire » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:17 am

I can already tell this thread is going to be full of fuck within the hour.

Thanks a lot, OP. It's people like you who are responsible for alcoholism.
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Postby Neo Art » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:18 am

The Parkus Empire wrote:
Neo Art wrote:
So you're saying only women get to complain about being marginalized? You sexist bastard.

No, God no, of course not. Women shouldn't complain 't all about being marginalized--it's the burden they must bear for looking so attractive but never noticing me for someone who's superior to their boyfriends.


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Postby Laerod » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:19 am


Doesn't address anything but the gender bias in the death penalty and the application thereof. Something that would be easily amended by getting rid of the of the death penalty. Have you any sources that show what sentencing is like in non capital crime cases?
2. Men are also expected to pay the bill on a date

The majority of women I've dated insisted on going Dutch or paying themselves. Or, at the very least, reimbursing me for the ingredients of what I cooked for them. So let's skip anecdotal evidence and look at the source you've got.
3. it happened in other emergencies

This is not a source.
4. if a women decides not to have an abortion the man is forced to be a father for that child, while if a women does't want a child she can just have an abortion

This is not a source.

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