The movie you saw was "Oorlogswinter", based on the book of Jan Terlouw. I was quite unhappy about that movie as it was made in English. Something I directly connect with the selling out of our Dutch culture and heritage, which you don't find a lot these days. The only thing that keeps the Dutch really unified, and gives us Dutchmen a feeling of Dutchness is the royal family. People who, by drawing signatures, make probably millions a year. Meanwhile the recently elected government "Rutte I", with liberal Mark Rutte as premier, is planning to cut the welfare-budget, directly affecting all of the poor who can't get by as it is now. At the expence of the poor, the government wishes to pay the royal family and buy a jet-fighter nobody needs.
I also see a line between what you describe and a process I call "Amerikanisering" Americanisation. The people I know seem to think of America as some kind of paradise where you can do everything while making money. The American dream is still very vivid in the Netherlands. I know what happens to the homeless there, in America. They are treated with the lowest form of disrespect and letting them starve apperantly is not immoral. They aren't working so it's their fault, I always here. Some months ago, I heard on the news that 25% of the American children are underfed. 25%! But hey, I hear saying again, then the parents should work. Then I remember the part where the kid says his father works overday in a factory and that his mother cleans houses overnight, and they still don't have enough money to sufficiently feed themselves let alone their children.
The DPRK, however isn't much better.
Your attraction with the DPRK reminds me a lot of me and the GDR. I have always loved the simple style of East-Berlin. The Socialist greetings everywhere. I have been to Berlin and I have visited the Karl-Marxallee. It was beautiful. The fountain, the Plattenbau I loved every single bit of it. When visiting the city, however, I didn't forget the atrocities that occured. People, shot for wanting to go away. For not wanting to be a part of the "Project" called the DDR.
Culture is what pulled me towards the GDR. The beautiful Solidaritätslied (Solidarity song) made by Bertolt Brecht, written by Hanns Eisler and sung by Ernst Busch. They believed in the GDR. They saw it as a new true Socialist state.
But how is it possible for a true Socialist state to call itself democratic, when votes are most probably already decided? A state where the Stasi keeps track of all it's citizens and makes sure nobody does anything "against state security". If this was the destined Socialist state Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels had imagined, then why did everyone want to leave?
North-Korea will fall. This will not be comparible with the GDR. The DPRK will starve itself to death unless it seeks help from the outside. Let's hope for a peaceful unification with South-Korea. I wouldn't count on it though.