The Norwegian Blue wrote:
Again, it is unquestionably shitty when someone is falsely accused of a crime they didn't commit. Duh. It is, however, utterly false to claim that being accused of a crime you didn't commit "ruins lives" to anything approaching the degree to which BEING FUCKING RAPED ruins lives. Can it, in some cases, ruin lives? Of course. Is it a tragedy when it does? Again, of course. Is it abso-fucking-lutely insane to argue that, by default, we should apparently all assume that anyone who claims to be raped is lying, lest we ruin someone's life (because, of course, being raped and not being believed couldn't possibly ruin anyone's life - or at least not anyone who matters, i.e. someone with a penis)? Again, of course. I am disgusted with men who feel the desperate need to hijack the issue of rape - something which directly affects between 16 and 25% of women (and roughly 3% of men) - to complain about the issue of false reports of rape, something which unquestionably affects a far, far, far smaller number of people, and generally to a far, far, far lesser degree. This thread is about how rape is or is not supported, not about false rape accusations - and yet, like nearly every rape thread, certain guys have to MAKE it about that, and have the brain-breaking gall to argue that they are in no way trivializing rape while explicitly insisting that it is less important and worthy of discussion than an issue that affects far fewer people to a far lesser degree.
I'm going to say that I agree with 95% of this. Give or take. Where I disagree is that I don't see concern over false accusations of rape as "trivializing" the real thing or that the real thing is "less important and worthy of discussion" simply because the issue of false accusations is raised. Now given that the real thing happens more often than false accusations, and that the real thing causes more damage than false accusations when it happens, I do not see that rape is "less important and worthy of discussion" despite the fact that I also consider willfully accusing someone of rape falsely to be a terrible, evil thing. In other words, I don't feel that I have to choose which of the two I have to object to. I deplore both. Would more rapists be in jail, and would they be there longer, than those who falsely accuse of rape? Yes. But this is a measure of statistical occurance, not a matter of which team is better. Hope that clears things.



