Wilgrove wrote:Or go on Craigslist.
I'm not sure that level of desperation is possible.
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by Mosasauria » Thu May 05, 2011 7:17 pm
by Czardas » Thu May 05, 2011 7:25 pm
NERVUN wrote:Trotskylvania wrote:With each post ITT, I get less and less sure I even understand why you're arguing this in the first place, let alone understanding what standard you use to make being presentable equivalent to paying for attention/sex.
Well, 1. I am interested in seeing how people do explain the difference between spending massive amounts on dating (albet indirectly) vs. just paying for the attention.
by Norstal » Thu May 05, 2011 7:26 pm
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by Vettrera » Thu May 05, 2011 7:28 pm
by NERVUN » Thu May 05, 2011 7:30 pm
Czardas wrote:NERVUN wrote:Well, 1. I am interested in seeing how people do explain the difference between spending massive amounts on dating (albet indirectly) vs. just paying for the attention.
Note "indirectly".
I mean when you are going to a club you're not going just to find a date. Sure, that might be your primary intent when going there but it is also to a great degree a social bonding thing. Music's capacity to form bonds is well documented (actually I have a paper on that :<), there will probably be alcohol which stimulates dopamine and etc, dancing hence serotonin and so forth, and you will generally be surrounded by people as opposed to sitting around at home on your butt clicking buttons on a box with moving pictures transmitted via variations in an electron stream across its surface. Dating is inherently social. Observing people directly to find out if you want to meet them gives you the full picture: what they look like (>60%), what they sound like (~30%), what they actually say (<10%). You get pheromones. Regardless of perfume, you can smell fear and emotions and whatnot and will instinctively stay away from people who look dangerous or unpleasant and gravitate towards people who are confident and stuff.
Idrc how well this lines up with my earlier arguments. Basically reducing dating to "shiny things go in, boobies come out" ignores all the additional factors that really make dating what it is. This site takes the "gamey" approach to dating and removes many of its natural disadvantages (i.e. real-world interaction), all in the interests of tradition. I've explained elsewhere why I think that tradition is bad.
by Dakini » Thu May 05, 2011 8:24 pm
by There is no cow level » Thu May 05, 2011 11:53 pm
by There is no cow level » Thu May 05, 2011 11:54 pm
Mosasauria wrote:Considering that both parties give consent in this, I have no problem with this.
Who knows? They might even end up truly falling in love.
by Dakini » Fri May 06, 2011 5:53 am
There is no cow level wrote:I don't agree with the concept. When I think about it, I get a paranoia that it will lead to some members of the "fairer" gender to exploit the site to make a quick buck. From my experience, the dates that were most successful were the ones that I spent the least amount of money on. (first date/hangout with current gf consisted of nothing more than walking around the city from 6pm to 3am doing nothing at all, I even bought a pizza and she just sat there and watched me eat it lol. Total amount spent on her at the end of it $1 on an arizona ice tea)
by Bottle » Fri May 06, 2011 5:58 am
by Kashyr » Fri May 06, 2011 6:13 am
Bottle wrote:This is hideous. Sure, Traditional Values dictate that women have no desires of their own and that men are supposed to view women as objects to be purchased and used, but you're not supposed to say so out loud! You're supposed to, like, make trivial and ultimately worthless gestures (like getting down on one knee before you purchase your woman-servant) and everyone is supposed to pretend that you're total equals while she does all the housework and childcare and provides you with blowjobs on demand.
by New Rogernomics » Fri May 06, 2011 6:14 am
by Dakini » Fri May 06, 2011 6:25 am
Kashyr wrote:Bottle wrote:This is hideous. Sure, Traditional Values dictate that women have no desires of their own and that men are supposed to view women as objects to be purchased and used, but you're not supposed to say so out loud! You're supposed to, like, make trivial and ultimately worthless gestures (like getting down on one knee before you purchase your woman-servant) and everyone is supposed to pretend that you're total equals while she does all the housework and childcare and provides you with blowjobs on demand.
To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
by Ashmoria » Fri May 06, 2011 6:32 am
NERVUN wrote: Thoughts, NSG?
by Stefannica » Fri May 06, 2011 8:23 am
by Bottle » Fri May 06, 2011 8:28 am
Kashyr wrote:Bottle wrote:This is hideous. Sure, Traditional Values dictate that women have no desires of their own and that men are supposed to view women as objects to be purchased and used, but you're not supposed to say so out loud! You're supposed to, like, make trivial and ultimately worthless gestures (like getting down on one knee before you purchase your woman-servant) and everyone is supposed to pretend that you're total equals while she does all the housework and childcare and provides you with blowjobs on demand.
To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
by Mosasauria » Fri May 06, 2011 8:31 am
Bottle wrote:This is hideous. Sure, Traditional Values dictate that women have no desires of their own and that men are supposed to view women as objects to be purchased and used, but you're not supposed to say so out loud! You're supposed to, like, make trivial and ultimately worthless gestures (like getting down on one knee before you purchase your woman-servant) and everyone is supposed to pretend that you're total equals while she does all the housework and childcare and provides you with blowjobs on demand.
by The Congregationists » Fri May 06, 2011 8:50 am
Kashyr wrote:To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
by Ashmoria » Fri May 06, 2011 8:57 am
The Congregationists wrote:Kashyr wrote:To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
A step forward? No. But romance has been an utter and complete failure and it's time we faced and acknowledged that.
by The Blaatschapen » Fri May 06, 2011 9:06 am
by Kashyr » Fri May 06, 2011 9:09 am
Dakini wrote:Kashyr wrote:To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
Uh... slave auctioning was usually for slaves, not romantic partners. If anything, parents arranging marriages was more the "good old days" before romance.
Bottle wrote:I must admit, I certainly would prefer if people stopped trying to tell me that it's "romantic" to adhere to patriarchal traditions which directly reflect the belief that men are meant to own women as property.
by The Congregationists » Fri May 06, 2011 9:18 am
Ashmoria wrote:utter and complete?
no
iffy, yes.
but buying brides is not going to be a step up. maybe arranged marriages. but as americans i dont see it being better. we are people who are not inclined to put up with easily negated bad decisions. a bought bride is just as likely to walk away when "daddy" stops spending extra money on her.
by Dakini » Fri May 06, 2011 10:14 am
The Congregationists wrote:Kashyr wrote:To be honest it would really be a really a step forward to stop hiding behind all this 'romance' bullshit and go back to the good old days of slave auctioning. At least everybody knew where they stood.
A step forward? No. But romance has been an utter and complete failure and it's time we faced and acknowledged that.
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