Sexual Turnoffs

[Nazis in Space]

Well thats what I'm hoping.. Her brother did say she had something but I forget what and if he said she got rid of it :( I do much perfer being attached to soemone when doing something, like she was much better at giving head than lets say my ex, but I think I liked gettign head from my ex more- It wasn't just about the physical gratification.

Okay, I lol'd a bit at the first part. Well, sleep tight :-p

Second one, yeah. That's kind of to be expected. Emotional investment matters, and it'd be rather strange (Also sad) if it didn't. Relationships are desirable. I'm just not much into relationships being 100% exclusive ^^

[The Truth and Light]

You know what turns me off? When people, in debates, start whining about the other's debate tacticss.


Let me just say that, though NIS may be wrong, Meryuma failed to point out how.

[Johz]

I'm finding that quite a lot now. Can be quite confusing at times.

Eh. Post-Adolescent adulthood syndrome. As soon as you get past the age where omgafag is omghorrible and you can't ever admit to masturbating for some reason, it's IMHO pretty normal to develop the same sense of 'She's pretty' women generally have, anyway. Not in the form of 'He's pretty', of course, but in the form of 'Wow, he looks great!'. God knows, when I'm watching the Immensely Manly Sport of MMA, I pay not inconsiderable attention to the men's chests, and am disappointed when there's two flabbering heavyweights in the octagon.

I don't want to fuck them, but I can damn well expect my eyes not being insulted <_<

At least, that's how it was for me. I know, anecdotal evidence.

I agree. Brian Cox, Britain's new science presenter, well phewee. I can certainly appreciate him. Hot, and scientific. If I could, I'd become a woman and marry him, but I suspect he's got a large number of fans that I'd have to fight through anyway. And bullshit about loud music. He can play his music at any volume he wants for me...

Anyway, where were we?

[Novograd IV]

thinking about the penis papercut thing... *shudders uncontrollably*

[Nazis in Space]

Bawwwwwwwwwwww.

*pats*

One day, you'll cease being an angry little man, I'm sure.

[Meryuma]

You know what turns me off? When people, in debates, start whining about the other's debate tacticss.


Let me just say that, though NIS may be wrong, Meryuma failed to point out how.

When they're the one making a significant claim about me, the burden of proof is on them.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

thinking about the penis papercut thing... *shudders uncontrollably*

I lack a frame of reference, but paper cuts hurt like a mo'fo. In the penis, I'm sure even more.

[Buffett and Colbert]

You know what turns me off? When people, in debates, start whining about the other's debate tacticss.


Let me just say that, though NIS may be wrong, Meryuma failed to point out how.

When they're the one making a significant claim about me, the burden of proof is on them.

Some things we just let go.

[Umbra Ac Silentium]

thinking about the penis papercut thing... *shudders uncontrollably*

What? Just a paper cut? :3 I assume you saw no raids on F7? ^^

[Horsefish]

Well thats what I'm hoping.. Her brother did say she had something but I forget what and if he said she got rid of it I do much perfer being attached to soemone when doing something, like she was much better at giving head than lets say my ex, but I think I liked gettign head from my ex more- It wasn't just about the physical gratification.

Okay, I lol'd a bit at the first part. Well, sleep tight :-p

Second one, yeah. That's kind of to be expected. Emotional investment matters, and it'd be rather strange (Also sad) if it didn't. Relationships are desirable. I'm just not much into relationships being 100% exclusive ^^

Well if I get a rash or something needless to say it wont be as funny anymore

My problem is I find it hard to seperate sex from the emotional side of it, meaning I find it harder when it is casual to enjoy it as much. I'm not quite sure where this problem comes from but it's been there for as long as I can remember. It leaves me a little bit screwed afterwards-I just dont seem as happy as the other person.

[Indeos]

When they're the one making a significant claim about me, the burden of proof is on them.

Some things we just let go.

Apparently not when we're high schoolers.

[Johz]

Also dicks on people who I thought were women. Partly 'cos I just get confused...

Cuz we all know women can never have penises, and that genitalia is inseparable from someone's gender, amirite?

Fair 'nuff, but the sudden - wuh? - feeling just gets me. Now if someone were to say 'howdy, want fun time with a girl with a dick?' or equivalent, I'd be more inclined. Still not massively inclined, but not disinclined because I was confused.

[The Southern Dictators]

Excessive pubic hair, moles, slut, threesome's aaand...obesity, atheist/agnostic aaand...[still thinking]

What is a "slut"? And what turns you off about atheists and agnostics? Do you know that there are agnostic theists?

Just a turn off. Though that and being a slut I can look past, though it gunna take a lot.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Some things we just let go.

Apparently not when we're high schoolers.

You would be surprised.

But yes, there are some arguments that are not really worth getting into. Besides, this is the internet.

[Novograd IV]

thinking about the penis papercut thing... *shudders uncontrollably*

What? Just a paper cut? :3 I assume you saw no raids on F7? ^^

I can watch tubgirl, 2G1C and the pain olympics all at once, but needles and papercuts still make me cringe

[Nazis in Space]

Well if I get a rash or something needless to say it wont be as funny anymore :P

My problem is I find it hard to seperate sex from the emotional side of it, meaning I find it harder when it is casual to enjoy it as much. I'm not quite sure where this problem comes from but it's been there for as long as I can remember. It leaves me a little bit screwed afterwards-I just dont seem as happy as the other person.

Well, it'll still be funny to me :-p

As for the rest, I don't think that's a problem - largely because I've difficulties imagining how thoroughly casual sex could be as good as, well, sex in the context of a functional relationship. As said, the emotional side does matter, and it'd be kinda surprising if the latter type of sex wasn't better.

On that basis, you're probably imagining the other person seeming happier than you. Probably. Or they've never had a functioning relationship before ^^

[Indeos]

Apparently not when we're high schoolers.

You would be surprised.

But yes, there are some arguments that are not really worth getting into. Besides, this is the internet.

It was a joke, so I could make a generalization and then use the freak-out about the other one to prove myself right. I know high schoolers.

[Ryadn]

Bad kissers. D/s. Corny dirty talk (good dirty talk can be a huge turn-on). Being with someone who just doesn't seem as into it as I am. The words "no" and "stop".

[Horsefish]

Well if I get a rash or something needless to say it wont be as funny anymore

My problem is I find it hard to seperate sex from the emotional side of it, meaning I find it harder when it is casual to enjoy it as much. I'm not quite sure where this problem comes from but it's been there for as long as I can remember. It leaves me a little bit screwed afterwards-I just dont seem as happy as the other person.

Well, it'll still be funny to me :-p

As for the rest, I don't think that's a problem - largely because I've difficulties imagining how thoroughly casual sex could be as good as, well, sex in the context of a functional relationship. As said, the emotional side does matter, and it'd be kinda surprising if the latter type of sex wasn't better.

On that basis, you're probably imagining the other person seeming happier than you. Probably. Or they've never had a functioning relationship before ^^

Well considering her brother is one of my best-friends I'll just continue to poke fun about his family all have STD's etc. It would ease the pain

I'm not sure I am imagining it. It always seems at about half way through I just lose intrest because I don't feel connected to them-maybe it's just casual sex with random people, though I have no problem admitting that the cuddiling after sex is probally my favourite part and thats genrally the one that gets kicked in the head at a party.

[Potarius]

The words "no" and "stop".

"Pull out, please." is probably the biggest turnoff I've ever had. Ugh.

[Nazis in Space]

I probably count as a man-slut. Go me! (Though, I'm not staggeringly dumb.)

I'm also one of that handful who points out attractive guys to my high school peers. Very comfortably bi.

Men don't have anywhere near the (Socio-evolutionary sort of understandable, but in modern times thoroughly ridiculous) stigma attached to sluttiness than women have to deal with, though, so only half points :-p

[Ryadn]

thinking about the penis papercut thing... *shudders uncontrollably*

I lack a frame of reference, but paper cuts hurt like a mo'fo. In the penis, I'm sure even more.

I've never owned my own penis, but papercuts under the nail make me want to kill, so I bet it's even worse.

[Ryadn]

Really? I happen to think it's the opposite.

I'd post pics to make my point, but I already got a nation deleted in the past, and I'd rather avoid losing another one, even if it's the lolgeneral nation.

Plus, I think it's DoS worthy, which would be unfun.

Anyway, I honestly don't see how. A penis - particularly an erect penis -, while not exactly the most beautiful thing in the world (That goes to breasts and butts, respectively. For both sexes, btw), is way ahead of the, frankly, shrivelled collection of rippled skin flaps with a few molehills hidden inside that's a vagina.

It's pretty good to be inside it, but it's not exactly what I'd call a work of art.

(I actually had this conversation with a lesbian I know a while ago. Maybe six months ago. She agreed).

Maybe you need to choose partners that are better-hydrated. I don't think they're meant to be shriveled.

[Nazis in Space]

Well considering her brother is one of my best-friends I'll just continue to poke fun about his family all have STD's etc. It would ease the pain ;)

I'm not sure I am imagining it. It always seems at about half way through I just lose intrest because I don't feel connected to them-maybe it's just casual sex with random people, though I have no problem admitting that the cuddiling after sex is probally my favourite part and thats genrally the one that gets kicked in the head at a party.

I guess it happens. So you clearly need a girlfriend ^^

Though, may be the environment, too. I've never had sex at a party. After a party, going home, okay. But at the party? That could be a little, uh... Awkward.

[Ryadn]

I have a question, am I the only one who can be turned off by porn?

Not at all. A lot of porn is awful. I'd say the vast majority of porn is a turn-off. Luckily there's so damn much of it, if you do a little searching you're likely to find something you like.