It's a Gay Life

by **Episarta** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 5:56 pm

Jeez, i've been seeing this thread in the forum topic bar on the side for a while now, and I never had enough interest to actually check it out. But I am honestly surprised at how large the gay community on this site seems to be. Isn't it great?

by **Vivolve** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 5:57 pm

Episarta wrote:Jeez, i've been seeing this thread in the forum topic bar on the side for a while now, and I never had enough interest to actually check it out. But I am honestly surprised at how large the gay community on this site seems to be. Isn't it great?

Totes.

by **Buffett and Colbert** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 5:58 pm

Episarta wrote:Jeez, i've been seeing this thread in the forum topic bar on the side for a while now, and I never had enough interest to actually check it out. But I am honestly surprised at how large the gay community on this site seems to be. Isn't it great?

It really isn't that large... It's even smaller if you don't count bisexuals...

by **Galenaima** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 5:59 pm

Buffett and Colbert wrote:
Episarta wrote:Jeez, i've been seeing this thread in the forum topic bar on the side for a while now, and I never had enough interest to actually check it out. But I am honestly surprised at how large the gay community on this site seems to be. Isn't it great?

It really isn't that large... It's even smaller if you don't count bisexuals...

We bisexuals are a proud people!

by **Takaram** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:01 pm

Galenaima wrote:
Buffett and Colbert wrote:It really isn't that large... It's even smaller if you don't count bisexuals...

We bisexuals are a proud people!

Who can't make up your bloody minds!
*kidding*

by **Galenaima** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:01 pm

Takaram wrote:
Galenaima wrote:We bisexuals are a proud people!

Who can't make up your bloody minds!
*kidding*

by **Risna** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:02 pm

The funny thing is my best friend is gay and we often talk about who we find hot (him guys and me girls). So when we discuss they are hot because X,Y and Z the other guy has no clue what the other is talking about. It is quite comical now that i think about it.

Oh and another question. What is ok for straight-gay friends to talk about in your eyes? Cause he is my first gay friend and I do not know what is appropriate or not.

by **Episarta** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:02 pm

Galenaima wrote:
Buffett and Colbert wrote:It really isn't that large... It's even smaller if you don't count bisexuals...

We bisexuals are a proud people!

Well, I tend to count them together because people tend to hate both of them. And I consider myself bisexual, just a lot more gay than straight.

by **Vivolve** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:04 pm

Risna wrote:The funny thing is my best friend is gay and we often talk about who we find hot (him guys and me girls). So when we discuss they are hot because X,Y and Z the other guy does not understand each other. It is quite comical now that i think about it.

Not quite sure I understood the bold part. Care to clarify?

by **Risna** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:11 pm

Vivolve wrote:
Risna wrote:The funny thing is my best friend is gay and we often talk about who we find hot (him guys and me girls). So when we discuss they are hot because X,Y and Z the other guy does not understand each other. It is quite comical now that i think about it.

Not quite sure I understood the bold part. Care to clarify?

Well it can be physical. Like my friend likes athletic guys with muscles. I am like "meh" it is hard for me to understand why that is attractive. And I like girls that have small boobs. And my friend is like "shrug". Like we can say what is hot but the other guy has no clue. Well it could be sexual as well. Like he told me that when he has a boyfriend that "he can take but he does not give" I mean i was like "...ok?" like I can't think "oh thats hot" the rest can go to your imagination.

by **Vivolve** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:14 pm

Risna wrote:
Vivolve wrote:
Not quite sure I understood the bold part. Care to clarify?

Well it can be physical. Like my friend likes athletic guys with muscles. I am like "meh" it is hard for me to understand why that is attractive. And I like girls that have small boobs. And my friend is like "shrug". Like we can say what is hot but the other guy has no clue. Well it could be sexual as well. Like he told me that when he has a boyfriend that "he can take but he does not give" I mean i was like "...ok?" like I can't think "oh thats hot" the rest can go to your imagination.

Ohh I see.. Yeah, I never really got that concept. I think I posted something similar relating to the whole 'Macho guy not admitting that another guy is good looking'. I'm not attracted to women, but I'm fully able to note what is attractive about them. Beauty is a subjective view that shouldn't be limited to sexual orientation.

by **Lordieth** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:37 pm

My life would probably be far easier if I wasn't bisexual. A girl I once loved said to me; 'you'll never love me like I love you because i'll never be enough for you'. If bisexuals do have 'the best of both worlds', I never have. She was wrong of course, but it doesn't help that i'm expected to explain my sexuality, or be told it's not really a sexuality. I'm not unhappy about it, it's good most of the time. I would say I was 70/30 in terms of female/male attraction, yet when a guy I like takes an interest in me, why is that more exciting than if it were a girl? See? Bi be bemusing.

by **Risna** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:44 pm

Lordieth wrote:My life would probably be far easier if I wasn't bisexual. A girl I once loved said to me; 'you'll never love me like I love you because i'll never be enough for you'. If bisexuals do have 'the best of both worlds', I never have. She was wrong of course, but it doesn't help that i'm expected to explain my sexuality, or be told it's not really a sexuality. I'm not unhappy about it, it's good most of the time. I would say I was 70/30 in terms of female/male attraction, yet when a guy I like takes an interest in me, why is that more exciting than if it were a girl? See? Bi be bemusing.

My bi friend said the key to being bi is just to not give a damn. It is hard enough to figure it out yourself let alone have to worry about others. Just if people ask tell them you are bi. Let them figure out the rest themselves. You do not need to explain and justify yourself to the world.

by **Niur** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:05 pm

Risna wrote:
Lordieth wrote:My life would probably be far easier if I wasn't bisexual. A girl I once loved said to me; 'you'll never love me like I love you because i'll never be enough for you'. If bisexuals do have 'the best of both worlds', I never have. She was wrong of course, but it doesn't help that i'm expected to explain my sexuality, or be told it's not really a sexuality. I'm not unhappy about it, it's good most of the time. I would say I was 70/30 in terms of female/male attraction, yet when a guy I like takes an interest in me, why is that more exciting than if it were a girl? See? Bi be bemusing.

My bi friend said the key to being bi is just to not give a damn. It is hard enough to figure it out yourself let alone have to worry about others. Just if people ask tell them you are bi. Let them figure out the rest themselves. You do not need to explain and justify yourself to the world.

I'd just tell my friends who I am going out with or who I think looks cute, or such and such, and let them figure out the label. But then again, sometimes I just like to watch my friends squirm.

by **Socklund** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:59 pm

Lordieth wrote: A girl I once loved said to me; 'you'll never love me like I love you because i'll never be enough for you'. If bisexuals do have 'the best of both worlds', I never have. She was wrong of course, but it doesn't help that i'm expected to explain my sexuality, or be told it's not really a sexuality.

But you see, bisexuality and polyamory are one and the same, and polyamory is the same thing as being a cheating slut, so bi folks are guaranteed to cheat! It makes such perfect sense! And being poly *and* probably not straight, I'm doubleplusextra guaranteed to have 500 sexual par- wait, I've never had sex? Damn. The theory might have some kinks to iron out.

teeheeheehee "kinks"

by **Vivolve** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 10:05 pm

Socklund wrote:
Lordieth wrote: A girl I once loved said to me; 'you'll never love me like I love you because i'll never be enough for you'. If bisexuals do have 'the best of both worlds', I never have. She was wrong of course, but it doesn't help that i'm expected to explain my sexuality, or be told it's not really a sexuality.

But you see, bisexuality and polyamory are one and the same, and polyamory is the same thing as being a cheating slut, so bi folks are guaranteed to cheat! It makes such perfect sense! And being poly *and* probably not straight, I'm doubleplusextra guaranteed to have 500 sexual par- wait, I've never had sex? Damn. The theory might have some kinks to iron out.

teeheeheehee "kinks"

Polyamerous people choose to live in a relationship with more than one other person. That doesn't relate to bisexuality at all.

by **Socklund** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 10:21 pm

Vivolve wrote:
Socklund wrote:But you see, bisexuality and polyamory are one and the same, and polyamory is the same thing as being a cheating slut, so bi folks are guaranteed to cheat! It makes such perfect sense! And being poly *and* probably not straight, I'm doubleplusextra guaranteed to have 500 sexual par- wait, I've never had sex? Damn. The theory might have some kinks to iron out.

teeheeheehee "kinks"

Polyamerous people choose to live in a relationship with more than one other person. That doesn't relate to bisexuality at all.

I had thought Lordieth's girlfriend was associating bisexuality with not being monogamous.

by **Lordieth** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 1:29 am

No, she felt that because I was sexually attracted to men and women, that as a woman she wouldn't have everything I wanted. Which was as good as saying to me that my relationships would be incomplete. I have never cheated on a partner. Ever. She saw it in a way that i'd somehow feel I was missing something by staying with her. You could say that about anyone of any sexuality. I think she saw it in physical terms rather than emotional. It wasn't a cheating concern, she thought she was inadaquate for me.

by **Grittonia** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 12:24 pm

So... I totally saw my name being mentioned here. Anyways:

The Grit is back!

You guys should make 'wooop' sounds right now

I totally have accumulated stories that are just like awesomely gay in the time that I've been away.

by **Chrinthanium** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 12:39 pm

Grittonia wrote:So... I totally saw my name being mentioned here. Anyways:

The Grit is back!

You guys should make 'wooop' sounds right now

I totally have accumulated stories that are just like awesomely gay in the time that I've been away.

GRIT!

by **Vetega** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 1:12 pm

by **Meryuma** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 2:02 pm

Grittonia wrote:So... I totally saw my name being mentioned here. Anyways:

The Grit is back!

You guys should make 'wooop' sounds right now

I totally have accumulated stories that are just like awesomely gay in the time that I've been away.

We've missed you... I think. Well, I have at least.

A lot of stuff has happened since I last saw you around, for instance me & Niur went out several times and I turned 15.

by **Zephie** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 2:16 pm

What's this threads purpose? Is this like the gay version of Apple's genius bar?

by **Buffett and Colbert** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 2:41 pm

Grittonia wrote:So... I totally saw my name being mentioned here. Anyways:

The Grit is back!

You guys should make 'wooop' sounds right now

I totally have accumulated stories that are just like awesomely gay in the time that I've been away.

Wooop!

by **Buffett and Colbert** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 2:41 pm

So today we had a class trip to the beach. Plenty of wet, shirtless boys for me to stare at.

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