Is using Only Fans defensible?

[Neu Arbuckle]

Not at all. Women who utilize this site are tainted goods forever, and no self respecting man will ever wife one up.

Calling women "goods" to be "wifed up" is so gross

[Neu Arbuckle]

Can someone explain to me why this website decided to triplepost my response

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

Can someone explain to me why this website decided to triplepost my response

Hamsters went rogue

[Zephyriel]

Calling women "goods" to be "wifed up" is so gross

Why should a woman be just a "wife" to you, is that all you think of them.

[Camtropia]

Can someone explain to me why this website decided to triplepost my response

I think I saw a quadruple post once. Maybe even a quintuple post.

Anyway, in reference to the thread topic:

For viewers, there's plenty of free... stuff*... on the internet. So don't waste your money.

For creators, while you should be allowed to do what you want with your body, I don't think I personally would ever feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who posts on OnlyFans. It would feel like she's cheating on you, but with potentially hundreds of other guys.

*Exhibit A of Camtropia being stereotypically British and incredibly awkward when talking about any sex-related topic

[Zephyriel]

And also using it is sensible, hear me out
It doesn't affect you or us.

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

Can someone explain to me why this website decided to triplepost my response

I think I saw a quadruple post once. Maybe even a quintuple post.

Anyway, in reference to the thread topic:

For viewers, there's plenty of free... stuff*... on the internet. So don't waste your money.

For creators, while you should be allowed to do what you want with your body, I don't think I personally would ever feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who posts on OnlyFans. It would feel like she's cheating on you, but with potentially hundreds of other guys.

*Exhibit A of Camtropia being stereotypically British and incredibly awkward when talking about any sex-related topic

Yeah, that's a big concern for dating anybody involved with the field. You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you.

[Ifreann]

I think I saw a quadruple post once. Maybe even a quintuple post.

Anyway, in reference to the thread topic:

For viewers, there's plenty of free... stuff*... on the internet. So don't waste your money.

For creators, while you should be allowed to do what you want with your body, I don't think I personally would ever feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who posts on OnlyFans. It would feel like she's cheating on you, but with potentially hundreds of other guys.

*Exhibit A of Camtropia being stereotypically British and incredibly awkward when talking about any sex-related topic

Yeah, that's a big concern for dating anybody involved with the field. You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you.

Except no, it doesn't actually follow that someone who does online sex work would be untrustworthy in a relationship.

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

Only Fans is a nuanced topic
On the one hand women should have full way to be able to do whatever they want and in the end it's not our job to police.

On the other hand it's really just 18+ work that can risks a person's career if they do it as a side hustle and can cause some creators to be personally doxxed or leaked.

This is what I think

[Hoxie]

Legalize prostitution.

[Zephyriel]

Yeah, that's a big concern for dating anybody involved with the field. You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you.

Except no, it doesn't actually follow that someone who does online sex work would be untrustworthy in a relationship.

True, many people here seems to believe if you are not a virgin before they "wife" you up then you are untainted and corrupted.

[Ifreann]

Only Fans is a nuanced topic
On the one hand women should have full way to be able to do whatever they want and in the end it's not our job to police.

On the other hand it's really just 18+ work that can risks a person's career if they do it as a side hustle and can cause some creators to be personally doxxed or leaked.

This is what I think

So then why were you just saying that sex workers can't be trusted to be faithful in a relationship? Rather sounds like you think sex workers are immoral people generally.

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

Yeah, that's a big concern for dating anybody involved with the field. You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you.

Except no, it doesn't actually follow that someone who does online sex work would be untrustworthy in a relationship.

It's the feeling, for many men. They just find it hard to believe that a woman who loves them would have to do sex work being in a relationship with them. It just feels like cheating very much without it actually being one

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

Only Fans is a nuanced topic
On the one hand women should have full way to be able to do whatever they want and in the end it's not our job to police.

On the other hand it's really just 18+ work that can risks a person's career if they do it as a side hustle and can cause some creators to be personally doxxed or leaked.

This is what I think

So then why were you just saying that sex workers can't be trusted to be faithful in a relationship? Rather sounds like you think sex workers are immoral people generally.

My response below your post should tell you more.

[Ifreann]

Except no, it doesn't actually follow that someone who does online sex work would be untrustworthy in a relationship.

It's the feeling, for many men. They just find it hard to believe that a woman who loves them would have to do sex work being in a relationship with them. It just feels like cheating very much without it actually being one

What you said, in case you've forgotten, was "You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you." Very clearly you think that sex workers just can't be trusted. Which sounds like a you problem, not something you can project onto men generally.

[Zephyriel]

Except no, it doesn't actually follow that someone who does online sex work would be untrustworthy in a relationship.

It's the feeling, for many men. They just find it hard to believe that a woman who loves them would have to do sex work being in a relationship with them. It just feels like cheating very much without it actually being one

You literally just proved your argument work, just because a is b does not mean b is a.

[E s t r u s]

Why should a woman be just a "wife" to you, is that all you think of them.

And what else is a woman supposed to be to a man? Just as a man is to a woman. I’m not saying that this is the only reason men and women interact – that’s absolutely not the case. But if you’re a woman and you’re interested in a man, it’s entirely logical that you would choose him consciously and, accordingly, wouldn’t mind becoming his wife. Just as a man who consciously chooses a woman shouldn’t mind becoming her husband.

[The Saucer Pilots]

So how do you view women who use Only Fans?.

I don't often, but now that you asked and that I am bored.

I think OF is the culmination of a monetized quest for eroticized companionship in a sad and atomized world in which everything is sexual and nothing is at the same time, to make a hyperbole. Its users and content creators are, presumably, normal people who reflect our dismal and atomized reality.

Personally, I'm not up for that kind of parasocial money-burning. I spend enough putting up a face time faking emotions in Retail.
...
I burn my money very occasionally collecting gravure idol photo-books almost two decades old.

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

It's the feeling, for many men. They just find it hard to believe that a woman who loves them would have to do sex work being in a relationship with them. It just feels like cheating very much without it actually being one

What you said, in case you've forgotten, was "You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you." Very clearly you think that sex workers just can't be trusted. Which sounds like a you problem, not something you can project onto men generally.

I don't think most men would think highly of dating a sex worker, the post I replied to you should tell you.

It feels like cheating when it isn't, that's how I'll explain it

[Neo Lunatea]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FGKq5BEz8s

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

So how do you view women who use Only Fans?.

I don't often, but now that you asked and that I am bored.

I think OF is the culmination of a monetized quest for eroticized companionship in a sad and atomized world in which everything is sexual and nothing is at the same time, to make a hyperbole. Its users and content creators are, presumably, normal people who reflect our dismal and atomized reality.

Personally, I'm not up for that kind of parasocial money-burning. I spend enough putting up a face time faking emotions in Retail.
...
I burn my money very occasionally collecting gravure idol photo-books almost two decades old.

It's sad, men pay to interact and think that they really have a special relationship with the creator. It explains why many men who pay for it are usually always lonely, to them it's a special relationship but reality is different and some men fail to realize that.

[Ifreann]

What you said, in case you've forgotten, was "You wonder if they really like you or could just be cheating on you." Very clearly you think that sex workers just can't be trusted. Which sounds like a you problem, not something you can project onto men generally.

I don't think most men would think highly of dating a sex worker, the post I replied to you should tell you.

It feels like cheating when it isn't, that's how I'll explain it

Again, that is not what you said. You very clearly said that sex workers can't be trusted in relationships. The post is right there.

You know, it's pretty funny that you're seemingly running from this position you can't defend when you made this thread about whether using OnlyFans is defensible. Is anything you say defensible?

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

I don't think most men would think highly of dating a sex worker, the post I replied to you should tell you.

It feels like cheating when it isn't, that's how I'll explain it

Again, that is not what you said. You very clearly said that sex workers can't be trusted in relationships. The post is right there.

You know, it's pretty funny that you're seemingly running from this position you can't defend when you made this thread about whether using OnlyFans is defensible. Is anything you say defensible?

I explained why. I said for many men it's hard to distinguish sex with another person with whether they truly like me
I told you why I think that way but you seem to insist on that post

[Nicolo Machiavelli]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FGKq5BEz8s

Expand?, Would be nice to know why.

[Gotland and Oland]

Only Fans is only used by women who want money, and men who are either cheaters or creeps