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by Freaneet » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:32 am
by Takso » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:32 am
Thepeopl wrote:Meikaii wrote:Perhaps I find myself in a more unusual situation. My partner has a lot of 'don'ts' in a relationship, some of which really, REALLY, chafe at times. However, I also know that this have waaaaay more to do with his past trauma more than anything else. Ex. When cuddling, I love getting the whole body engaged but I have to leave our legs out of it because he freaks out if he feels his legs are restrained and he can't get away (from anything, mind you). What should be taken away from this is that unacceptable restrictions may just be a way to protect themselves from trauma. THIS IS NOT APOLOGETICS. It simply means that you should definitely talk with your partner and try to resolve the issues, or at least find where they stem from so that you can have a better relationship. And of course, some people are scumbag controllers no matter what, so fuck those people.
NO!! Don't fuck scumbag controllers. They might procreate and raise more scumbags.
Walk away from ppl who are too domineering for your taste.
by Jack Thomas Lang » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:39 am
Kowani wrote:Just because heaven isn’t a factor doesn’t mean that people don’t benefit from working towards a cause. After all, since there is nothing after death, the only meaning in life is what one gives it. Thus, one is not benefited in the traditional sense, but rather, derives satisfaction from knowing that they have changed the world for what they perceive to be better.
by Takso » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:51 am
Freaneet wrote:As long as it isn't like sexting (sending or receiving sexual content from others personally), I don't consider porn cheating, like watching a public video of people having sex... Not to mention many TV shows could be easily considered softcore or erotica nowadays. Now if my partner were to be into violent pornography where people are being exploited etc. then that's a problem.
Yeah but all porn is violent to some degree. All of it is a display of power.
by Thepeopl » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:53 am
Takso wrote:Thepeopl wrote:NO!! Don't fuck scumbag controllers. They might procreate and raise more scumbags.
Walk away from ppl who are too domineering for your taste.
Respecting someone's challenges due to mental illness is definitely a good thing to do, provided respecting such does not put one at risk. That being said, at least for me, physical intimacy is important, and if I or my partner were to have serious issues with that, I would seek couple therapy and or psychotherapy. It's one thing to have challenges, but if such can be overcome with therapy, then it's best to try at least.
by Freaneet » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:54 am
by Page » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:55 am
by Freaneet » Fri Aug 30, 2019 12:57 am
by Freaneet » Fri Aug 30, 2019 1:01 am
by Forsher » Fri Aug 30, 2019 1:04 am
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by What R Ye Doin in Muh Swaomp » Fri Aug 30, 2019 1:41 am
by Freaneet » Fri Aug 30, 2019 1:49 am
by New haven america » Fri Aug 30, 2019 1:50 am
Freaneet wrote:What R Ye Doin in Muh Swaomp wrote:
Wow, you must really watch some out there porn if the purpose is to "annihilate" the other person. I thought I was bad with my BDSM/femdom/exhibitionist stuff but nope, you put me to shame.
Porn isn't cheating btw.
I never watched anything of the sort.
by The New California Republic » Fri Aug 30, 2019 2:31 am
Freaneet wrote:Yeah but all porn is violent to some degree. All of it is a display of power.
by Lanoraie II » Fri Aug 30, 2019 2:57 am
United Muscovite Nations wrote:Threlizdun wrote:Masturbation is creating an imaginary, conceptual image of a person in your head for the purpose of living out fantasies you construct in your head. It does not in itself reduce the person you are imagining to an object in real life, merely playing out a form of creative wish fulfillment in your imagination. Imagination and experimentation are how we explore our sexuality. They're how we figure out what we are interested in sexually, as well as familiarizing ourselves with our bodies and how to properly stimulate and use them.
An active sexual imagination and familiarity with your body is incredibly important to having good sex. It helps to take out the guesswork, and allows you to better communicate with your partner over what you want done to you, as well as enabling you to have a better idea of what you want to actually do with your partner when you're in the moment.
I understand if for you, the idea that you may be objectifying someone makes this act undesirable, and you are welcome to continue abstaining from it in your own life. But when you make broad condemnations of healthy sexual behavior and self exploration that most people engage in and most people are accepting of and consent to in their relationships, you are demanding that people sacrifice their own desires and fulfillment just because it's something you wouldn't do.
I disagree that it's healthy. While one should enjoy sex, sex shouldn't be about self-gratification, it should be about loving your partner, and because of that, masturbation, which is purely self-gratifying, cannot be moral.
by Lanoraie II » Fri Aug 30, 2019 3:00 am
Freaneet wrote:As long as it isn't like sexting (sending or receiving sexual content from others personally), I don't consider porn cheating, like watching a public video of people having sex... Not to mention many TV shows could be easily considered softcore or erotica nowadays. Now if my partner were to be into violent pornography where people are being exploited etc. then that's a problem.
Yeah but all porn is violent to some degree. All of it is a display of power.
by Infected Mushroom » Fri Aug 30, 2019 4:13 am
by Page » Fri Aug 30, 2019 4:23 am
Infected Mushroom wrote:“Unacceptable relationship restrictions?”
Hmmm let me think
I know!
“No video games”
by Infected Mushroom » Fri Aug 30, 2019 4:58 am
by Andsed » Fri Aug 30, 2019 5:12 am
United Muscovite Nations wrote:Purgatio wrote:
Wait....what? So you're opposed to casual sex or hook-ups? Why? Who cares? Sex is an extremely personal and intimate thing and its only natural it'll mean different things to different people.
Yes, of course casual sex and hook-ups are wrong, they're using another person as a masturbatory object.
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