Kvatchdom wrote:Chestaan wrote:
So, in other words, toxic masculinity is a way of blaming the problems faced by men on other men? Would you call the slut shaming of women by other women toxic femininity?
Also you do realise that by claiming that those who engage in toxic masculinity do so because their own masculinity is fragile you are doing the exact same thing that those who engage in toxic masculinity do? Specifically you are calling those who don't conform to your views less manly than those who do.
Not other men, other people and the society in which the issues arise.
Toxic masculinity is not just something people do. Rape is not toxic masculinity, but the prevalence of it is. The fragility of masculinity however is just an irritating way to ignore the issues men face. People killing themselves or killing others is not fragility, it's a problem.
This is your periodic reminder that, among adults, women raping men isn't some severe minority of events. It probably makes up 40% of rapes (or so) in the adult population.