Tahar Joblis wrote:Liriena wrote:Sounds about right. Although we're still ignoring the elephant in the room: at least some of the overlap is rooted in good old fashioned misogyny, and sometimes not even subtly so.
Actual hatred of women is quite a bit rarer than sexism. It's rare even in circles that are overtly sexist.
"Misogynist" was an insult back in the 1600s, and is still an insult today.
It's also a word that can accurately describe a lot of the rhetoric I've seen in certain spaces.
Tahar Joblis wrote:There's no elephant in the room.
The overlap between /r/TheRedPill and men going their own way is the diagnosis that there's something deeply dysfunctional about how women typically relate to men in the here and now. TRP puts this in the framework of "this is how you work with psychology to make the dysfunction work for you," but some men respond to that diagnosis by deciding not to deal with it.
Is there some sexism there? Yes. It's very easy to jump from "these are very common problems in how women treat men" to "all women are [X]." It's a tendency that is demonstrated just as clearly by feminists as redpillers.
Or how men typically relate to women, or at least how they are typically taught to relate to them? This is not a one-way street.
Also... I'm pretty sure constantly talking about "alpha men" does not actually count as "psychology".