Hladgos wrote:Prusslandia wrote:Well, I'm looking for a 24/7 relationship, so :/.
Don't tir yourself down with a serious relationship right off the bat. Go forth and fornicate and date yntil you feel like you're okay with being with a single person the rest of you life.
Nearly destroyed my relationship, trying to remain loual when both of us desired to experiment. You need the freedom to find yourself.Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
He can also try to dom someone else. Provided his gal's ok with that. Love is good but not always necessary for a D/s relationship to be successful.
True, there are things I wouldn't do to my partner because I'd be afraid of what they'd think of me. Said things needed other people to complete
Now, TPE (total power exchange), which is pretty much what 24/7 M/s relationships are is something one should try and ease into. I would suggest the kink to be relegated to the bedroom first, if she's interested, and then bring up the TPE dynamic after some time has passed. Scene BDSM and TPE are very different practices and as with everything, not everyone's cup o' tea.