[R] Flaming/Harassment

[Southeast Marajarbia]

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This post by Common Territories, in the end part of it is calling for a mass ignoring of myself and other players who are in an RP alliance I helped make. I would like to know if the end part there constitutes flaming and/or harassment, if possible.

[Frisbeeteria]

Nope. Players can choose to roleplay or not roleplay with whomever they want.

[Southeast Marajarbia]

Nope. Players can choose to roleplay or not roleplay with whomever they want.

Thanks, I guess

[Esternial]

Nope. Players can choose to roleplay or not roleplay with whomever they want.

Thanks, I guess :)

Chiming in here to urge you to try and reconcile whatever drama seems to be stirring between you and Common Territories.

Whatever animosity you have is clearly going to disrupt whatever fun you're both trying to have on the forums. Who is right and who is wrong is not a fight worth having if it results in the both of you being shot in the foot long-term.

I hope you can both settle whatever bad blood is between you two.

[Southeast Marajarbia]

Thanks, I guess

Chiming in here to urge you to try and reconcile whatever drama seems to be stirring between you and Common Territories.

Whatever animosity you have is clearly going to disrupt whatever fun you're both trying to have on the forums. Who is right and who is wrong is not a fight worth having if it results in the both of you being shot in the foot long-term.

I hope you can both settle whatever bad blood is between you two.

I mean, I appreciate the assistance, but the guy’s been pretty much harassing me throughout the Summer, and has made at least two threats to me in the past month or so. I don’t think reconciliation with the guy is a good idea at this point.

If you guys want me to link the threats he made, just let me know and I will edit this post with the relevant links

[Common Territories]

I'm on mobile, just woke up, and have work soon, so this wont be as long as I'd like it to be. But here goes.

SM, I spent the better part of the summer trying to be a player you could interact with. I started it friendly enough. That relationship soured IC because we felt ignored. We were neutral for a while until it became obvious there was IC disagreements. And lastly, we were convinced your faction of nations were enemies based on your goals for the world. I tried plenty of times to get your attention or bounce RP off you during all three points and you literally ignored me. It took a serious post from someone to even get your attention concerning me. So if me doing the bare minimum to RP with you is harassment, guess I'm guilty, huh? Odd since I was ignored until today no matter what I did, and the only thing that changed was I'm officially ignoring you now. But of course I'm not guilty of harassment and you know that - we both/all know that.

As for the "threats" I'd love for you to link them here. As someone who's life was threatened here at least 3 times in the past, I'd hate to see threats go unnoticed. But I know you can't find any "threats" because I'm not stupid enough to make such notes about people online, even if that's how I truly felt about somebody. I suspect you're referring to my ultimatums concerning the fact you were ignoring me and I wanted to get a straight answer from you. If you had simply said yes either time, we could just move on and ignore each other. But instead you simply feign interest for a moment and then lie to me about interacting later. I don't say that lightly neither since I've already proven it; after all even my TG attempt to form a dialogue with you was blown off in under two words.

So let me be real once more with you SM. I have no interest in interacting with you anymore. I was not the one who made this decision, it was you. You ignored me for long enough and it was clear you had no interest in me. I figured banning me was your way of telling me to go away too. So I returned the favor in kind. If neither of us want to interact with the other, I believe the mature thing would be to move on and ignore each other. Tbh I'm dumbfounded that after months of trying to get a thread with you, me ignoring you was what sparked at least "a" thread. Regardless, I encouraged others to join me because others have their own reasons to ignore you, some of those reasons being your ignoring of them too. As I see it, I'm merely doing what you refused to do publicly: politely ignoring your existence to keep things civil.