[R] Player won't stop tagging me in their RMB 'RP'

[Neu Engollon]

I have no idea even how to go about reporting this, or exactly what it is other than harassment, so excuse my long story to describe it.

I keep getting pings that I am included in these big stat blocks that this player (see links) churns out almost every day.
I asked them to stop and that I have been pinged enough. They refused, but blocked me from interacting with their region to ask them to stop.

I have retconned my involvement with them and I asked nicely for them to not include me in their 'RP' on their RMB (In quotes because I don't get how that is RP, but that's another matter). I think we're at the point of moderation involvement now.

EDIT: My nation has now been edited out of some, although my thread is still mentioned, but not all of the posts have been edited. Honestly don't care about the past ones, it's the future posts that ping me that I'm concerned about.

[Sedgistan]

First off, in future, gameside issues should be dealt with via Getting Help Request, not the forums.

You can address this one easily yourself: https://www.nationstates.net/page=subscriptions - add them to your ignore list.

[Neu Engollon]

First off, in future, gameside issues should be dealt with via Getting Help Request, not the forums.

You can address this one easily yourself: https://www.nationstates.net/page=subscriptions - add them to your ignore list.

Sorry, I guess that makes sense since it's not in the forums, although it is roleplay in different form and it is a moderation issue.
Adding them to my ignore list will disable their ability to list me in their RPs?

[Sedgistan]

If you add them to your ignore list, you won't get notices from them tagging you in RMB posts/dispatches any more - i.e. no more pings if they continue to list you in their posts.

[The North Polish Union]

If you add them to your ignore list, you won't get notices from them tagging you in RMB posts/dispatches any more - i.e. no more pings if they continue to list you in their posts.

FYI for Neu Engollon: As someone who had this same problem several months ago (and I haven't even RPed in years to make it more inexplainable), I found that if non-blocked players quoted the RMB post I still got a ping from that. Since would've been impractical to block everyone in the several-thousand-nation region my pings were coming from I continued to GHR the pings even after blocking the initial nation and eventually moderators took care of it.

[Frisbeeteria]

I continued to GHR the pings ... eventually moderators took care of it.

Bad advice. We don't have a magic wand that removes the pings. Eventually the post probably just slipped back into history.

[The North Polish Union]

I continued to GHR the pings ... eventually moderators took care of it.

Bad advice. We don't have a magic wand that removes the pings. Eventually the post probably just slipped back into history.

The pings themselves didn't disappear, I just cleared the notification myself. Per the TG I received after my final GHR on the situation I was told that the player who had been tagging me (even after I blocked the nation) had been warned, and apparently the warning got the message across successfully because it hasn't been an issue since.

My point was that moderation telling Neu Engollon to block the player pinging him won't solve the problem of unwanted/unnecessary pings if other non-blocked nations quote the RMB posts.

[Santheres]

First off, in future, gameside issues should be dealt with via Getting Help Request, not the forums.

You can address this one easily yourself: https://www.nationstates.net/page=subscriptions - add them to your ignore list.

Sorry, I guess that makes sense since it's not in the forums, although it is roleplay in different form and it is a moderation issue.
Adding them to my ignore list will disable their ability to list me in their RPs?

If they keep doing it after you have requested they stop a couple times, it may likely qualify as harassment. On the forum or gameside. Obviously GHR for gameside, and post here for forumside.

Edit: you will want to know and provide where you have informed them you want them to stop.

[Neu Engollon]

Sorry, I guess that makes sense since it's not in the forums, although it is roleplay in different form and it is a moderation issue.
Adding them to my ignore list will disable their ability to list me in their RPs?

If they keep doing it after you have requested they stop a couple times, it may likely qualify as harassment. On the forum or gameside. Obviously GHR for gameside, and post here for forumside.

Edit: you will want to know and provide where you have informed them you want them to stop.

Thank you. The history of my asking for him to stop is in the Independence Hill RMB. He suppressed my posts, but he also quoted me every time, so you can still see what I said. I was polite. I asked him to stop. He told me no, it needs to happen. I filed my GHR and without getting into all that, was basically told I was out of luck.

I put them on my ignore list, and have proceeded to sever any and all ties, as I have been advised to do, by moderation, and from other players, and my own past experience.
To bring this around to forumside RP, which is part of the matter, I have requested that his posts be deleted off my storefront thread, which would negate his having to include me in his stat spewing blocks on his RMB as we have no IC 'business' with each other. It seems to be my last recourse unless the harassment is taken seriously. To be clear, I consider it harassment after I asked to be left off the tags and was told that was not going to happen. Before he knew of my objection, it was on me to tell him that it was annoying.

[Sedgistan]

filed my GHR and without getting into all that, was basically told I was out of luck.

Yes, so you should stop trying to argue it here. You have been told already that what you have reported does not amount to harassment, that you should use your ignore list.

That you consider someone mentioning you to be harassment does not make it so. Ignore it and get over it. We are done here.