Kiu Ghesik wrote:Marquisal has carried this threadjacking attempt to insinuate Val is somehow out to get him into the
compliments thread. He has also repeatedly referred to Val as
“she” despite Val being clear he was male- I believe intentional misgendering is a rules violation? Oh, and
trollnaming.
To be fair, her leader is a woman and in her personalf factbook she claims to be an asian girl.
Second of all, flaming didn't start by my side, but instead this is what happened:
(This is an edit from my last and most detailed explanation)
So, one year ago or something like that it was really late in the country in which I lived (Sweden) (Now had to change to another neighbour country due to studies but anyways) I was tired and I was plying NationStates in the forums. I was a bit noob at the time and I didn't really understand the topic but still I tried to make an answer to my above nation, which was Valentine Z. After that, she replied to me annoyed criticizing my reply and saying that it vas very bad quality answer and the reason why Forum 7 was dying or something like that, I don't remember the exact words. I think that either I posted something or I telegrammed her saying sorry and I edited my post to improve it, yet I got skipped by her and no one replied to me. Then, some months passed, and again I was in the forums, this time I was replying in the "what's your opinion about the AL" topic, and I had to reply to Valentine Z. This time I tried to make a longer post, with more detail about her leader. As she has many factbooks, and none of them is a leader factbook, I made a post about what I was believing that was her leader, but I was wrong and I got repplied with another answer, which was more rude this time and she insulted me and my way of reading and writing. She didn't swear or anything though, but I felt really insulted. I tried again to get in peace with her, but we didn't really do. Then, in this month, I replied to her again in the rate if the AN leader is hot topic, and yet again it was impossible for me to find a factbook of her leader because apparently she doesn't, and she posts information about it in a NationStates topic which I had never heard about. I got another rude answer and the link, so, I red it, and I made a post about it which wasn't very complimenting, yet it wasn't made in any rude way but it was basically joking about that as many people thought that her leader was a girl but he was a boy, I was treating him like an operated trans man who turned into a woman whose surgery didn't really end good. I wasn't trying to be rude, but she felt like it was and wrote me another reply criticizing me even more heavily than before, and told me to never reply to her again. I was feeling obviously insulted, and then 5 minutes after that or so I see that she replyed to me in another post of another topic right after in a very rough and (made on purpose) bad quality way. (This is the reason why I was complaining about her way of forgetting, as it only took her some minutes to forget the "never reply to me again and I will neither do so" so since then I have been answering her in every post that i saw her, as she was doing the same; and as I believe in the old rule of the "eye for an eye" I posted in the same way as she, and the conflict got quickly escalated. Then, many nations such as Azur Deutschland and many others (who I believe are puppets) are trying to troll me very heavily and isolate me from this forum.
I mean, I admit that my way of acting wasn't the closest to what God would want of me, but I believe that it's natural to feel like this after so many times being insulted by a nation who looks really down on me.