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by Reploid Productions » Mon Jul 20, 2020 7:26 pm
[violet] wrote:Maybe we could power our new search engine from the sexual tension between you two.
by Fahran » Mon Jul 20, 2020 7:33 pm
Grenartia wrote:The polyamory thread isn't about sex. It is about relationships. That should be obvious to anyone who is trying to talk about it in good faith.
by Fahran » Mon Jul 20, 2020 8:05 pm
Souseiseki wrote:Snap
by The Free Joy State » Mon Jul 20, 2020 8:17 pm
The New California Republic wrote:Reploid Productions wrote:Discussions about sex. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS. This should go without saying, but given the number of times we've ended up catching people cybersexing, it clearly needs to be restated. This is a political sim game, we don't need to hear about how you're horny, who you did, who you want to do, what you did it with, any details about your sexual exploits real or imagined, favorite sex toys, preferred positions, particular kinks or fetishes. This is a PG-13 site. Go somewhere else if you want to talk about your sex life or masturbatory habits.
The Abortion thread has very frequent mentions of safe sex in a non-explicit manner, I assume that wouldn't fall foul of this new rule? It's just the "no exceptions" statement is a bit concerning, as it makes it seem like mentioning/advocating/discussing contraceptive use even without going into detail would get caught in the dragnet too, as it very much is a discussion about sex...
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by Wallenburg » Mon Jul 20, 2020 9:30 pm
Reploid Productions wrote:South Odreria 2 wrote:So the polyamory thread and the earlier one about the morality of casual sex would both be forbidden?
We're looking for feedback on the current draft, and suggestions for changes and refinements to better tailor the revised standards to enable discussions while curtailing the sort of material that attracts undesirables. Not an endless parade of "What if-" or "What about-". If you have suggestions to better refine the drafted standards, please share them.
Reploid Productions wrote:Marriage is one of those topics that kinda tiptoes riiiiight up to the line, but you could probably argue marriage age in terms of "can enter a legally binding contract" without talking about the sex side of it. But that is a tricky one that would need to be handled carefully.
Reploid Productions wrote:Ideally, one can talk about relationships without going into any particular detail on the sex had in those relationships. People manage to do so all the time with regards to straight relationships, I sincerely doubt it's any more difficult to discuss homosexual, poly, or other non-"standard" relationships the same way.
by USS Monitor » Mon Jul 20, 2020 10:31 pm
Fahran wrote:Souseiseki wrote:Snap
With all due respect to you Souseiseki, this is a line of argument that I have no issue with banning. There absolutely is a correct opinion on this given the locales from which our posters come and the moral boundaries that could be pushed if we countenance even the slightest exception to the rule laid out in the OP. Given we've had some issues with this as a community, freeze peach becomes a secondary concern. That said, I don't think we should normalize accusing people or countries of pedophilia either. It's not an argument that should happen at all if it creates an environment that's unsafe for users.
by The Free Joy State » Mon Jul 20, 2020 10:36 pm
Alvecia wrote:The New California Republic wrote:Sorry but "Discussions about sex. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS" is too broad in its current state. Even a couple of former Moderators have flagged up concerns in that department...
Perhaps just rearranging the paragraph structure, as the "Discussions about sex. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS" does sound quite concerning until you read the context after said rule, which I think makes it quite clear that safe sex in the abortion thread isn't the intended target of said rule.
Had the context come before the large red text ruling, perhaps it wouldn't sound quite so broad. For example:Discussions about sex. This should go without saying, but given the number of times we've ended up catching people cybersexing, it clearly needs to be restated. This is a political sim game, we don't need to hear about how you're horny, who you did, who you want to do, what you did it with, any details about your sexual exploits real or imagined, favorite sex toys, preferred positions, particular kinks or fetishes. This is a PG-13 site. Go somewhere else if you want to talk about your sex life or masturbatory habits.
Ruling: BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS.
Discussions about personal sex habits. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS. This should go without saying, but given the number of times we've ended up catching people cybersexing, it clearly needs to be restated. This is a political sim game, we don't need to hear about how you're horny, who you did, who you want to do, what you did it with, any details about your sexual exploits real or imagined, favorite sex toys, preferred positions, particular kinks or fetishes. This is a PG-13 site. Go somewhere else if you want to talk about your sex life or masturbatory habits.
by Fahran » Mon Jul 20, 2020 10:43 pm
USS Monitor wrote:Even in Western countries where many NSers live, the laws on marriage and age of consent can vary between jurisdictions. Gio wouldn't need to put stuff about the US in their sig if it was a settled issue.
USS Monitor wrote:If a subject is too uncomfortable for the site to tolerate a two-way debate, then it shouldn't be discussed at all.
USS Monitor wrote:Just because one side is very uncomfortable with the debate doesn't mean it's some unanimous thing that everyone agrees about.
by USS Monitor » Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:06 pm
Fahran wrote:USS Monitor wrote:Even in Western countries where many NSers live, the laws on marriage and age of consent can vary between jurisdictions. Gio wouldn't need to put stuff about the US in their sig if it was a settled issue.
I'm aware. The age of consent around where I live is seventeen. It's sixteen in a lot of the regions of Australia, the mythical land of Max Barry. The issue is that we have to set a boundary somewhere given that some places have ages of consent that are considerably lower, some states in the US allow what amounts to child marriage, and that countenancing such discussions at all tends to attract predatory folks to the site. It's a legal and moral minefield all things considered.USS Monitor wrote:If a subject is too uncomfortable for the site to tolerate a two-way debate, then it shouldn't be discussed at all.
I completely agree with this point. Hence...
"That said, I don't think we should normalize accusing people or countries of pedophilia either."
A moratorium on all discussions of this nature effectively preempts the problem.USS Monitor wrote:Just because one side is very uncomfortable with the debate doesn't mean it's some unanimous thing that everyone agrees about.
It's not just that I'm uncomfortable with the debate. It's that we have a couple instances of people in their early thirties and above arguing that relationships with extremely young children and adolescents should be legal or that erotica/pornography portraying children should be legal. I think it behooves the community here and the Moderation Team to snuff out anything that might lead to such discussions when we have significant population of users under the legal age of consent. It's not safe. It's criminal in quite a few places. And it's just a whole bunch of trouble we as a community don't need.
by Mackjaracotavon » Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:27 pm
by Grenartia » Tue Jul 21, 2020 12:08 am
The Free Joy State wrote:Perhaps, then "discussions indirectly related to sex" (such as sex education) could be a separate, conditionally acceptable, listing as long as they are not graphic, prurient, stay well within PG-13 lines, don't fall afoul of one of the other rules and are directly related to the discussion at hand.
I think this would make some users in NSG (including me) less concerned that relevant topics could get caught up with things that I think most people would agree should definitely not be on NS.
by Vivolkha » Tue Jul 21, 2020 12:48 am
The Free Joy State wrote:Alvecia wrote:Perhaps just rearranging the paragraph structure, as the "Discussions about sex. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS" does sound quite concerning until you read the context after said rule, which I think makes it quite clear that safe sex in the abortion thread isn't the intended target of said rule.
Had the context come before the large red text ruling, perhaps it wouldn't sound quite so broad. For example:
Or, maybe -- if drafts related to sex (we have any number on safe sex, abortion, LGBT+ etc.). and discussions related to sex education and on-topic, non-prurient discussions, for example in the abortion thread, will still be allowed -- perhaps it could be worded like this:Discussions about personal sex habits. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS. This should go without saying, but given the number of times we've ended up catching people cybersexing, it clearly needs to be restated. This is a political sim game, we don't need to hear about how you're horny, who you did, who you want to do, what you did it with, any details about your sexual exploits real or imagined, favorite sex toys, preferred positions, particular kinks or fetishes. This is a PG-13 site. Go somewhere else if you want to talk about your sex life or masturbatory habits.
Perhaps, then "discussions indirectly related to sex" (such as sex education) could be a separate, conditionally acceptable, listing as long as they are not graphic, prurient, stay well within PG-13 lines, don't fall afoul of one of the other rules and are directly related to the discussion at hand.
I think this would make some users in NSG (including me) less concerned that relevant topics could get caught up with things that I think most people would agree should definitely not be on NS.
by Salandriagado » Tue Jul 21, 2020 3:44 am
Reploid Productions wrote:South Odreria 2 wrote:So the polyamory thread and the earlier one about the morality of casual sex would both be forbidden?
We're looking for feedback on the current draft, and suggestions for changes and refinements to better tailor the revised standards to enable discussions while curtailing the sort of material that attracts undesirables. Not an endless parade of "What if-" or "What about-". If you have suggestions to better refine the drafted standards, please share them.
by Reploid Productions » Tue Jul 21, 2020 7:34 pm
[violet] wrote:Maybe we could power our new search engine from the sexual tension between you two.
by The Free Joy State » Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:38 pm
Reploid Productions wrote:Long day at work, so I haven't had a shot at an in-depth review of the latest just yet, but the gist from what I've looked at seems mainly focused on the "Discussions about sex." point. Besides formatting bits like putting the Ominous Colored Text AFTER the descriptions, would it help some to shift the wording on the bolded header to be more along the lines of "Discussions about details/mechanics of sex activities."? Because the main point as per the description on that one is less about "no talking in abstract terms about sex or situations tangentially related to sex such as rape or abortion" and entirely "we really don't need to hear folks talking about the details of putting Tab A into Slot B." Plus that covers both "personal sex habits" as well as all the related "not personal habits" places where people might start going into unwanted details.
by Outer Sparta » Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:44 pm
The Free Joy State wrote:Alvecia wrote:Perhaps just rearranging the paragraph structure, as the "Discussions about sex. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS" does sound quite concerning until you read the context after said rule, which I think makes it quite clear that safe sex in the abortion thread isn't the intended target of said rule.
Had the context come before the large red text ruling, perhaps it wouldn't sound quite so broad. For example:
Or, maybe -- if drafts related to sex (we have any number on safe sex, abortion, LGBT+ etc.). and discussions related to sex education and on-topic, non-prurient discussions, for example in the abortion thread, will still be allowed -- perhaps it could be worded like this:Discussions about personal sex habits. BANNED, FULL STOP, NO EXCEPTIONS. This should go without saying, but given the number of times we've ended up catching people cybersexing, it clearly needs to be restated. This is a political sim game, we don't need to hear about how you're horny, who you did, who you want to do, what you did it with, any details about your sexual exploits real or imagined, favorite sex toys, preferred positions, particular kinks or fetishes. This is a PG-13 site. Go somewhere else if you want to talk about your sex life or masturbatory habits.
Perhaps, then "discussions indirectly related to sex" (such as sex education) could be a separate, conditionally acceptable, listing as long as they are not graphic, prurient, stay well within PG-13 lines, don't fall afoul of one of the other rules and are directly related to the discussion at hand.
I think this would make some users in NSG (including me) less concerned that relevant topics could get caught up with things that I think most people would agree should definitely not be on NS.
by Reploid Productions » Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:51 pm
Outer Sparta wrote:The Free Joy State wrote:Or, maybe -- if drafts related to sex (we have any number on safe sex, abortion, LGBT+ etc.). and discussions related to sex education and on-topic, non-prurient discussions, for example in the abortion thread, will still be allowed -- perhaps it could be worded like this:
Perhaps, then "discussions indirectly related to sex" (such as sex education) could be a separate, conditionally acceptable, listing as long as they are not graphic, prurient, stay well within PG-13 lines, don't fall afoul of one of the other rules and are directly related to the discussion at hand.
I think this would make some users in NSG (including me) less concerned that relevant topics could get caught up with things that I think most people would agree should definitely not be on NS.
How have sex education threads fared in the past? Were they mostly productive or did they get swiftly locked for non PG-13 content?
[violet] wrote:Maybe we could power our new search engine from the sexual tension between you two.
by Outer Sparta » Tue Jul 21, 2020 9:09 pm
Reploid Productions wrote:Outer Sparta wrote:How have sex education threads fared in the past? Were they mostly productive or did they get swiftly locked for non PG-13 content?
Eh, kinda a toss up. Sometimes they stay focused on the matter of sex education, sometimes they go sideways into non-PG-13 excess and need a lock. Not really sure there's a dominant tendency with that subject. Seems to really depend on the quality of the opening post setting the tone I think.
by Reploid Productions » Tue Jul 21, 2020 9:16 pm
Outer Sparta wrote:Reploid Productions wrote:Eh, kinda a toss up. Sometimes they stay focused on the matter of sex education, sometimes they go sideways into non-PG-13 excess and need a lock. Not really sure there's a dominant tendency with that subject. Seems to really depend on the quality of the opening post setting the tone I think.
I guess it's definitely a case-by-case situation. Is the moderator team looking to keep the current policy towards sex education or tweak things?
[violet] wrote:Maybe we could power our new search engine from the sexual tension between you two.
by Nobel Hobos 2 » Thu Jul 23, 2020 1:53 am
Discussions/debates regarding the boundary between legal definition of a child/minor and an adult. Conditionally acceptable. Want to debate voting age? Military enlistment age? Entering a legally binding contract? Gambling/drinking age? Go for it. But as pertains to "can legally consent to sexual activity", see the previous point regarding discussions about age of consent.
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by Euroslavia » Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:17 pm
Aclion wrote:I thought this was already the rule.
edit that said if this is how you intend to post them in the stick you might want to make them shorter, few enough people read the rules as it is.
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