Fully agreed with your sentiment.
I'm at the point where people saying "it's just a game" annoy me more than people who forget it's a game.
Yes it's a game; but it's a game where people have invested dozens (or hundreds when we consider the people being discussed in this thread) of hours into. Of course they will be worked up, angry, disappointed, and a whole host of other emotions, when that work is effectively thrown away.