Nayba Collective wrote:In fact, I do stay only in foundered regions just to avoid you guys. Much like I don't play games in PvP areas - I don't want to deal with people like you wasting my time by essentially trolling, and why should I waste my time on you? I'm not here to be annoyed for your amusement.
Mostly, however, I'm annoyed by the high horse most raiders put themselves on. "Oh, we're rescuing you from taking the game seriously!" - like, I'm aware that it's a game, bro. (And yeah, I get it, you don't say it quite so literally, but that is what your arguments mean.) But I'm allowed to immerse myself in things, to enjoy them unironically, and you're not actually doing me or the world a service by saying "lolo why so serious?" And does a hobby become less worthy of respect because it's digital rather than physical, anyway? Do hours of writing fiction on a computer not count as compared to a typewriter? Time and effort are scarce, including the time for leisure. Wasting time is a real cost, really, not just a fake one. (Make us all immortal and I'll change my tune.)
So it's not the full truth to admit you're playing the annoying side of things. Also, your goal of "why so serious?" isn't meaningful either.
And that is your right. I don't recall any raider ever saying you should purposefully make your region raidable - hell, we even have better response times in forums like this for telling you how to make your region immune to us!
Never said we were going good by it. Said that if a game if affecting your life negatively, perhaps you're too invested in said game. I didn't intend to state otherwise either. We have to pull our own friends away for the same reason too often. You indeed have every right to get invested - the idea is that if a game, whether it's CoD, Roleplaying here, The Sims, building a region, or anything else is so big of an investment that you're losing sleep or being too stressed to work over your K/D ratio, the fate of a character, the health of your sims, or the state of your region, it's probably too big of an investment, regardless of what it is. I' say the same exact thing if someone felt this way over an RP I was in - and, in fact, have done so before. Does that mean I RP'd for the sake of showing them they're too invested? Think we can both agree, no. Similarly, most regions we raid don't have that kind of reaction, but when they do, the response is similar. And before you come back and say "well in an RP both parties actively, not just passively, choose to participate," let me state that a retort along those lines is merely attacking a single example and missing the point of the statement.
Writing a book isn't playing a game. We can't mess with your RP's on the forums, and doing so would be against the rules. RMB's? Now, if you're writing your book on sticky notes you leave in a semi-public area and someone sits there and scribbles on them, I'm going to blame you for your choice of medium. Additionally, I'd argue even that is a flawed metaphor - this is a game. It's a wide and varied game, but it's a game. It's not like scribbling in a book someone is trying to write. It's not like interrupting a theatrical performance. It's not even like flipping someone's chess board - that's a game that has only one way to be played, not the dozens this one has, of which R/D is one. I go back to my MMO examples - you can choose to RP, you can choose to build a guild, you can choose to go fight people. If you do those two in an area where the third is valid as well, instead of a safe area, you have every right to call those who forcibly interrupt you assholes, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's putting far too much significance on a game.
Again, I'd be a lot less inclined to argue your point it the average raid followed the path of >mob of random trolls invades< "lol u mad bro?" "lmfao got u" "haha gotcho delegacy" "why so serious m8." That, however, is not really the case. The larger and established groups, at least, maintain a professional and organized military-style setup. that behavior is not a goal, and in fact is often a good way to get kicked out. Our "goal" is to blow off some steam and have fun executing timed events that sometimes take months or even years of planning with a group of friends from all over the world.