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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:19 pm

We have a few Asian-Americans and Asian-Canadians. I've been very interested in trying to learn the stories and experiences of other Asians in the US and Canada, but also the rest of the Anglosphere I suppose. NS doesn't have many non-whites, so it is often difficult to have a meaningful discussion about issues and shared experiences as a minority group apart from the very few threads which mention us (which generally tend to be using us to imply that other minorities are lazy). It is also often difficult to have a discussion about ourselves considering that we often don't have anyone to talk to who have shared similar experiences (unless you live somewhere like the 626, lol).

Are you Asian-American? Are you hapa? Did you grow up in an area that had lots of Asians? What about members of your own ethnic group? How connected did you feel to them?

I think there are a few experiences which many of us can relate to...

Chinese Japanese, dirty knees, look at these?.. Everyone assuming you're Chinese? People constantly asking you where you're "from"?

If you're hapa, how did people treat you?

I've noticed that, in my personal experience, hapa are often strongly seen as Asian by white people, although as white by Asians from Asia.

Personally, I am Korean-American, and grew up in the United States. However, I was generally the only Korean person in my classes (I never had a classmate who was also ethnically Korean until 8th grade, when I ended up actually moving to Korea for a year and a half, except for one year during 4th grade). I was also one of the only Asians around, the others generally being Filipino or Vietnamese. We all knew each other, since there were maybe ten Asians in the entire school, haha, out of over a thousand people.

That was middle school of course. For the end of middle school and the beginning of high school, I was in Korea, and being an Asian-American in Asia is... oh god, haha.

Do you think we have racial discrimination? How do we have it in comparison to black people and Latinxs?

I've heard that while growing up, Asian-Americans often don't like being Asian, and will try to make themselves seem white, while later on, many feel more compelled to embrace at least part of their Asian identity. I think this has been pretty true for me.
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Postby Sabara » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:21 pm

I'm a whitewashed hapa (Chinese (HK)/Caucasian) who grew up (still growing up) in a pretty white town. I've made more Asian friends doing stuff in Seattle, though. And yes, people assume you're full Asian as a hapa. Apparently the small eyes are indicative..
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Postby Gim » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:24 pm

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I've heard that while growing up, Asian-Americans often don't like being Asian, and will try to make themselves seem white, while later on, many feel more compelled to embrace at least part of their Asian identity. I think this has been pretty true for me.


I think that is mostly the case when you are in an environment, where there are not many Asians; in other words, you are just trying to "blend in".
However, if you have a handful of Asian population, I think most Asians, if not born and raised in a non-Asian environment, prefer to join with their fellow ethnic friends.
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:27 pm

Actually, now that I think about it, there was a brief period where there was a Korean girl who went to my middle school in 7th grade, and we had science together!

Unfortunately, I stopped seeing her around the time one of my friends talked about "beating up a stupid chink girl," or something like that. I'm just hoping it wasn't her... :?

Sabara wrote:I'm a whitewashed hapa (Chinese (HK)/Caucasian) who grew up (still growing up) in a pretty white town. I've made more Asian friends doing stuff in Seattle, though. And yes, people assume you're full Asian as a hapa. Apparently the small eyes are indicative..

How was it when you visited Asia? :p

I think in general a lot of hapa kids who grow up in the US tend to feel more Asian, as that's how they are treated by most people in the US, especially for guys, I think. I think Asian men haven't been as accepted into mainstream American society as Asian women have, although Asian women have had to deal with fetishization by many people (gross).
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Postby Gim » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:32 pm

Arumdaum wrote:Unfortunately, I stopped seeing her around the time one of my friends talked about "beating up a stupid chink girl," or something like that. I'm just hoping it wasn't her... :?


You should've reported that to the Principal. I feel sorry for that girl. :(
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Postby Sabara » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:32 pm

Arumdaum wrote:Actually, now that I think about it, there was a brief period where there was a Korean girl who went to my middle school in 7th grade, and we had science together!

Unfortunately, I stopped seeing her around the time one of my friends talked about "beating up a stupid chink girl," or something like that. I'm just hoping it wasn't her... :?

Sabara wrote:I'm a whitewashed hapa (Chinese (HK)/Caucasian) who grew up (still growing up) in a pretty white town. I've made more Asian friends doing stuff in Seattle, though. And yes, people assume you're full Asian as a hapa. Apparently the small eyes are indicative..

How was it when you visited Asia? :p

I think in general a lot of hapa kids who grow up in the US tend to feel more Asian, as that's how they are treated by most people in the US, especially for guys, I think. I think Asian men haven't been as accepted into mainstream American society as Asian women have, although Asian women have had to deal with fetishization by many people (gross).

People thought I was pretty exotic in China, while in Japan and Korea I would get weird looks on the subway occasionally.

Yeah.. Asian guys have to put up with a lot of crap. I remember one of my friends being surprised that there were tall ripped Asians.
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:34 pm

Gim wrote:
Arumdaum wrote:
I've heard that while growing up, Asian-Americans often don't like being Asian, and will try to make themselves seem white, while later on, many feel more compelled to embrace at least part of their Asian identity. I think this has been pretty true for me.


I think that is mostly the case when you are in an environment, where there are not many Asians; in other words, you are just trying to "blend in".
However, if you have a handful of Asian population, I think most Asians, if not born and raised in a non-Asian environment, prefer to join with their fellow ethnic friends.

Yeah, same.

I think while growing up a lot of children struggle to find acceptance, and have to work their ways around being treated differently due to their race on the playground.

I think it is pretty good to have the chance to have friends of a fellow minority.
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Postby Gim » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:34 pm

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Yeah.. Asian guys have to put up with a lot of crap. I remember one of my friends being surprised that there were tall ripped Asians.


Consider them ignorant in ethnicities or nationalities. I don't think that is something about which to be incensed. :p
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Postby The Chen Dynasty » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:37 pm

I'm Taiwanese-American, and I was born right here in the US. The area I live in Southern California actually has a LOT of Koreans, and they tend to group together with themselves most of the time. Some even thought I looked Korean and tried to speak to me in Korean, although I really don't see it.

I've heard racist remarks concerning Asians now and then, mostly about the Chinese though (most Taiwanese are ethnically Chinese). I really think it's because they don't know anything about the Chinese except for racist stereotypes while on the other hand they're constantly exposed to the Korean kids, Kpop, and anime, which are quite popular here. That's why I never mention my ethnicity, good think nearly nobody knows "Chen" is Chinese, they assume I'm Korean or Vietnamese or something else lol.
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:39 pm

The Chen Dynasty wrote:I'm Taiwanese-American, and I was born right here in the US. The area I live in Southern California actually has a LOT of Koreans, and they tend to group together with themselves most of the time. Some even thought I looked Korean and tried to speak to me in Korean, although I really don't see it.

I've heard racist remarks concerning Asians now and then, mostly about the Chinese though (most Taiwanese are ethnically Chinese). I really think it's because they don't know anything about the Chinese except for racist stereotypes while on the other hand they're constantly exposed to the Korean kids, Kpop, and anime, which are quite popular here. That's why I never mention my ethnicity, good think nearly nobody knows "Chen" is Chinese, they assume I'm Korean or Vietnamese or something else lol.

626? Glendale/La Crescenta area? Irvine? Somewhere else? lol

KOREANS ONLY HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER HAHAHAHA

especially the recent immigrants omg lol (but this makes a lot of sense)
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Postby Gim » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:39 pm

Arumdaum wrote:
Gim wrote:
I think that is mostly the case when you are in an environment, where there are not many Asians; in other words, you are just trying to "blend in".
However, if you have a handful of Asian population, I think most Asians, if not born and raised in a non-Asian environment, prefer to join with their fellow ethnic friends.

Yeah, same.

I think while growing up a lot of children struggle to find acceptance, and have to work their ways around being treated differently due to their race on the playground.

I think it is pretty good to have the chance to have friends of a fellow minority.


It's ironic, because I'd personally converse and have fun with Koreans, rather than Caucasians. It seems I have been Koreanized. :lol2:
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:40 pm

Sabara wrote:
Arumdaum wrote:Actually, now that I think about it, there was a brief period where there was a Korean girl who went to my middle school in 7th grade, and we had science together!

Unfortunately, I stopped seeing her around the time one of my friends talked about "beating up a stupid chink girl," or something like that. I'm just hoping it wasn't her... :?


How was it when you visited Asia? :p

I think in general a lot of hapa kids who grow up in the US tend to feel more Asian, as that's how they are treated by most people in the US, especially for guys, I think. I think Asian men haven't been as accepted into mainstream American society as Asian women have, although Asian women have had to deal with fetishization by many people (gross).

People thought I was pretty exotic in China, while in Japan and Korea I would get weird looks on the subway occasionally.

Yeah.. Asian guys have to put up with a lot of crap. I remember one of my friends being surprised that there were tall ripped Asians.

Ugh, what I think is the worst is when other Asians start buying into racist crap against Asians.

when my cousin talked about "asian guys normally aren't attractive" and asked my sister whether she liked "white guys or black guys" just noooooooooo ewwww stahpppppppp

I think, though, that for a lot of Asians who aren't Chinese, we have to prove to other that we aren't Chinese, since we regularly get asked that, and a lot of people try to show that they aren't Chinese by saying that they don't like China and Chinese people. Well... that's how it was for me at least >__>
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Postby USS Monitor » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:42 pm

Arumdaum wrote:For the end of middle school and the beginning of high school, I was in Korea, and being an Asian-American in Asia is... oh god, haha.


I can imagine... When I lived in Shijiazhuang, I met a Chinese-American guy at a bar and was caught totally off-guard when he started speaking flawless American English and telling me he was from Iowa. I am sure it must have been a daily occurrence for him, being mistaken for Chinese, having people assume he spoke Chinese, and everyone acting surprised when they found out he was American. Probably got tiresome.

If you're white, you don't fit in, but you don't have to deal with everyone being surprised and confused when they find out you're American.

I've heard that while growing up, Asian-Americans often don't like being Asian, and will try to make themselves seem white, while later on, many feel more compelled to embrace at least part of their Asian identity. I think this has been pretty true for me.


That seems to be true for a lot of minorities.
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Postby Gim » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:44 pm

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Sabara wrote:People thought I was pretty exotic in China, while in Japan and Korea I would get weird looks on the subway occasionally.

Yeah.. Asian guys have to put up with a lot of crap. I remember one of my friends being surprised that there were tall ripped Asians.

Ugh, what I think is the worst is when other Asians start buying into racist crap against Asians.

when my cousin talked about "asian guys normally aren't attractive" and asked my sister whether she liked "white guys or black guys" just noooooooooo ewwww stahpppppppp

I think, though, that for a lot of Asians who aren't Chinese, we have to prove to other that we aren't Chinese, since we regularly get asked that, and a lot of people try to show that they aren't Chinese by saying that they don't like China and Chinese people. Well... that's how it was for me at least >__>


To be honest, if you go to conservative areas in the United States, you'd encounter many people calling Asians, "Chinese"; however, in Canada, a multicultural society, people don't assume ethnicities. However, racism is a different story. :p
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:48 pm

@Chen

However, that is pretty interesting, considering Chen doesn't sound Korean or Vietnamese to me. It just sounds pretty Chinese to me, haha. Maybe they aren't familiar with Korean last names??

I remember this one teacher who was white randomly came up to me one day and said "nihao" to me back in 6th grade lolzzzz for dayzzzz

Junior year I was taking Chinese one day we have a pretty old substitute teacher she looks at white kids "wow you guys are taking such a hard language i am so proud of you" then looks at asian kids in class "unless you already are chinese lol" LOL HAHAHA

there actually was one guy who already knew how to speak mandarin since he was ethnic chinese, but he never learned characters while growing up

however, it was just him

But yeah, Asians can get confused too, lol. I went to a Kinokuniya a few weeks ago, and the cash register started talking to me in Japanese. Unfortunately my Japanese is pretty terrible, and I was caught completely off guard, so I had to respond back in English.
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Postby The Chen Dynasty » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:48 pm

Arumdaum wrote:626? Glendale/La Crescenta area? Irvine? Somewhere else? lol

KOREANS ONLY HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER HAHAHAHA

especially the recent immigrants omg lol (but this makes a lot of sense)

I actually live near Anaheim. And yeah, they sometimes mingle with others but mostly they're just together.

Arumdaum wrote:when my cousin talked about "asian guys normally aren't attractive" and asked my sister whether she liked "white guys or black guys" just noooooooooo ewwww stahpppppppp

That sounds just like my sister lol
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Arumdaum wrote:
I remember this one teacher who was white randomly came up to me one day and said "nihao" to me back in 6th grade lolzzzz for dayzzzz



One of my Korean friends was biking the other day around a well-known park in my area, and someone bumped into him. He was a white person, mind you, and he basically said, "Duibuqi", to him. My friend, then, told me how white people think most Asians are Chinese. :p
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Arumdaum wrote:626? Glendale/La Crescenta area? Irvine? Somewhere else? lol

KOREANS ONLY HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER HAHAHAHA

especially the recent immigrants omg lol (but this makes a lot of sense)

I actually live near Anaheim. And yeah, they sometimes mingle with others but mostly they're just together.

Arumdaum wrote:when my cousin talked about "asian guys normally aren't attractive" and asked my sister whether she liked "white guys or black guys" just noooooooooo ewwww stahpppppppp

That sounds just like my sister lol
"Asian guys are so ugly omgggg but dayum them white boys though"


I don't get why so many people don't like Asian guys.
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The Chen Dynasty wrote:I actually live near Anaheim. And yeah, they sometimes mingle with others but mostly they're just together.


That sounds just like my sister lol
"Asian guys are so ugly omgggg but dayum them white boys though"


I don't get why so many people don't like Asian guys.


Me, neither. I'm white, and I like them a great deal. :p
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Postby Arumdaum » Thu Nov 05, 2015 11:59 pm

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Arumdaum wrote:For the end of middle school and the beginning of high school, I was in Korea, and being an Asian-American in Asia is... oh god, haha.


I can imagine... When I lived in Shijiazhuang, I met a Chinese-American guy at a bar and was caught totally off-guard when he started speaking flawless American English and telling me he was from Iowa. I am sure it must have been a daily occurrence for him, being mistaken for Chinese, having people assume he spoke Chinese, and everyone acting surprised when they found out he was American. Probably got tiresome.

If you're white, you don't fit in, but you don't have to deal with everyone being surprised and confused when they find out you're American.

I've heard that while growing up, Asian-Americans often don't like being Asian, and will try to make themselves seem white, while later on, many feel more compelled to embrace at least part of their Asian identity. I think this has been pretty true for me.


That seems to be true for a lot of minorities.

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I thought it was pretty accurate. :p

A bit off topic, but how was being an expat in China? I'm pretty interested. I heard that a lot of people don't really have a nice time though, haha. Or at least, the people on Reddit seemed to have a largely negative experience.

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It was really relatable, haha. I hadn't really put it into thought before, but ugh.

Since you look Asian, you are generally expected to know and fit the norms of the society, and aren't given much leeway on many things (since for others, it will just be dismissed as the non-Asian foreigner being unaware of cultural norms or some weird thing that say, Westerners do). This also means that people won't be as open to help you adjust, and people will get confused/offended when you vent out your frustrations, gahh...
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You know me. I am Korean-Texan. Cause American leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I was born in LA but has lived basically my whole life in Texas (exceptions being a couple of years in New England recently and Seattle when I was "much" younger). Still young :D (20; ;-; I will never understand why some people like the idea of aging so much). Spent my teen/preteen years in the Dallas area, which has a nice sized Korean community, which has grown a lot since we first came here. The Chinese and Koreans were always the largest East Asian group in my schools so I never had to deal much with being asked if I was Chinese or something else.

My friends after elementary school were almost all other Koreans just because it was easier to relate to each other. We spoke the same language (I did not master English until some time later), had the same culture, and all went to churches. I honestly never felt much as "Asian" and only play along with the idea of being Asian American because, well, I technically am and since others seem into it. But, to me, I am no more "Asian" than I am "American," if that makes any sense. That said, I, as well as many of my friends, always had a sense of being "outsiders" in school, although Asians made up over twenty percent of the student body.

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My high school Mandarin teacher (a devout Christian from Taiwan) thought I was Vietnamese. A lot of people think I am Vietnamese, for some reason. . .
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Postby New confederate ramenia » Fri Nov 06, 2015 12:04 am

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The Chen Dynasty wrote:I actually live near Anaheim. And yeah, they sometimes mingle with others but mostly they're just together.


That sounds just like my sister lol
"Asian guys are so ugly omgggg but dayum them white boys though"


I don't get why so many people don't like Asian guys.

Stereotypes.
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Postby Gim » Fri Nov 06, 2015 12:04 am

Parhe wrote:But, to me, I am no more "Asian" than I am "American," if that makes any sense. That said, I, as well as many of my friends, always had a sense of being "outsiders" in school, although Asians made up over twenty percent of the student body.



Yes, there seems to be a distinction between Koreans who have stayed overseas for a while and those who have recently arrived overseas(I think the term for it is, "Fresh Off The Boats". Based on what my Korean friend told me, the former enjoys both the culture of Korea and America, whereas, the latter enjoys just Korean culture, music, celebrities, etc.
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Postby Arumdaum » Fri Nov 06, 2015 12:08 am

I'm pretty thankful that my parents provided me with an English tutor when I was a toddler, and bought me lots of books. We would also go to the library a lot. I think that really helped me out while growing up, since that probably helped improve my English by a lot. :)

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Parhe wrote:But, to me, I am no more "Asian" than I am "American," if that makes any sense. That said, I, as well as many of my friends, always had a sense of being "outsiders" in school, although Asians made up over twenty percent of the student body.



Yes, there seems to be a distinction between Koreans who have stayed overseas for a while and those who have recently arrived overseas(I think the term for it is, "Fresh Off The Boats". Based on what my Korean friend told me, the former enjoys both the culture of Korea and America, whereas, the latter enjoys just Korean culture, music, celebrities, etc.

Yeah! FOBs, haha.

Koreans who have been in the US for a while aren't considered FOBs, whereas new arrivals are considered to be FOBs. They tend not to be very familiar with American culture.
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Postby Gim » Fri Nov 06, 2015 12:12 am

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Yeah! FOBs, haha.

Koreans who have been in the US for a while aren't considered FOBs, whereas new arrivals are considered to be FOBs. They tend not to be very familiar with American culture.


I tend to get along with both types, but I just wish the Fresh Boat guys would not smoke and drink as frequently. Mind you, older high school students drink and smoke, by the way. :p
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