by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:00 pm
by Page » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:02 pm
by Avenio » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:08 pm
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:11 pm
Avenio wrote:... So you're upset that a word has a non-standard definition - something that, as a pedant, you intensely dislike because it differs from your chosen dictionary of choice?
Why does the fact that words have meanings independent of what you, specifically, want them to have worthy of a thread?
by Page » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:16 pm
New Edom wrote:Avenio wrote:... So you're upset that a word has a non-standard definition - something that, as a pedant, you intensely dislike because it differs from your chosen dictionary of choice?
Why does the fact that words have meanings independent of what you, specifically, want them to have worthy of a thread?
Well, for a start it's misleading. Why not say 'supporter' which is an already existing and perfectly good word? After all, politicians don't ask people to become their allies when they mean supporters--they will say things like "will you support our campaign by putting up our banners/signs, putting on our buttons." And in fact, the White Ribbon Campaign, a campaign which is about ending violence against women, asks for people's support. I have no problem with the use of the word support. It is more accurate.
by Avenio » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:22 pm
New Edom wrote:Well, for a start it's misleading. Why not say 'supporter' which is an already existing and perfectly good word?
New Edom wrote:After all, politicians don't ask people to become their allies when they mean supporters--they will say things like "will you support our campaign by putting up our banners/signs, putting on our buttons."
And in fact, the White Ribbon Campaign, a campaign which is about ending violence against women, asks for people's support. I have no problem with the use of the word support. It is more accurate.
by The Sotoan Union » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:30 pm
New Edom wrote:I am a bit picky about words. It bugs me when people use 'monkey' to describe apes, or 'rodent' to describe small furry mammals regardless of whether they are rodents or not. (like say, raccoons or bats).
But lately I find what bugs me is when LGBT people and feminists use the word 'ally' to mean "someone who claims to be on our side."
Generally being an ally means joining with, uniting with, and the definition I feel sums it up best is this one: a person, group, or nation that is associated with another or others for some common cause or purpose
So it has come to be increasingly common for people to talk about 'being a good ally' yet there is intense defensiveness about even the notion of constructive criticism given to LGBT or feminist activists about the same. What do others think of this? Should this not change so that there can be constructive talk about mutual benefits of being an ally?
by Neu-Pommern » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:38 pm
by Benuty » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:40 pm
by Empire of Narnia » Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:47 pm
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:11 pm
by Bezkoshtovnya » Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:27 pm
New Edom wrote:Alright, let's try this then: I think it's just another way for politically correct people to try to control others' words and behaviour, and claim a high position for people who can claim being victims.
Dante Alighieri wrote:There is no greater sorrow than to recall happiness in times of misery
Charlie Chaplin wrote:Nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our troubles.
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:33 pm
by Margno » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:02 pm
Avenio wrote:... So you're upset that a word has a non-standard definition - something that, as a pedant, you intensely dislike because it differs from your chosen dictionary of choice?
Why does the fact that words have meanings independent of what you, specifically, want them to have worthy of a thread?
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:11 pm
by Skeckoa » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:12 pm
The struggles are real.Bezkoshtovnya wrote:Yes, it is a plot involving the Gays and Liberals to ultimately control the world through political correctness and all that, etc. etc..
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:15 pm
Skeckoa wrote:The struggles are real.Bezkoshtovnya wrote:Yes, it is a plot involving the Gays and Liberals to ultimately control the world through political correctness and all that, etc. etc..
by Skeckoa » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:17 pm
The idea is that if you are a straight ally, great. Be an ally and support people with less provelage than you in public spaces, don't interrupt. It's pretty given that any LGBTQ person has loads of people to choose from if they wanted to hear the opinion of a cis-het dude.New Edom wrote:I see threads in forums, blog posts, youtube clips showing people talking about 'being a good ally' which seems to consist of simply accepting whatever line of thought is proposed, shutting up and listening, and being told that any input offered independently of established conventions of thought are essentially arrogant and inappropriate. Disagreeing with this--regardless of what aid, activism or donations have been made--is sufficient to be accused of not really caring about the supporting cause at all. This is why I have raised this concern.
by Anglo-California » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:19 pm
by Skeckoa » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:22 pm
I always took it as saying that a White being racist to a black, even casually, held much larger repercussions than if the role was reversed since one person in that group is going to hold much more power than the other.Anglo-California wrote:The way the LGBT group uses the word "ally" is kind of correct. But what bugs me is how the definitions of racism and sexism have been changed so fucking much. Like where the fuck did this whole "blacks can't be racist, because racism requires power" spiel come from?
by Northwest Slobovia » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:25 pm
Neu-Pommern wrote:I couldn't careless, but misused words are a diamond dozen.
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:25 pm
by Avenio » Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:49 pm
New Edom wrote:Alright, let's try this then: I think it's just another way for politically correct people to try to control others' words and behaviour, and claim a high position for people who can claim being victims.
In a similar way, it is possible to be sexist towards men and unfair towards heterosexual people.
by Sebastianbourg » Mon Oct 20, 2014 8:02 pm
New Edom wrote:Either people want equality or they don't. Either people want fairness or they don't. The above example about "Blacks cannot be bigots" is a very good example. Anyone can have unfair prejudices.
In a similar way, it is possible to be sexist towards men and unfair towards heterosexual people. It is possible for general teachings to lean that way.
And furthermore--why should people not get recognition for good deeds? Why is there this odd perspective that people should simply be punished for wrongdoing and expect no reward or recognition for the good that they do? There is a difference between getting a reward just for a few words spoken and being recognized for instance for consistent charity.
My grandmother received a government award for twenty five years of helping organize charity drives for the children's hospital in our city. Should she NOT have been given that recognition?
Let's take it down a step--someone speaks up on my behalf when I am treated unfairly for racist reasons. Should I NOT thank them for speaking up? Since when is it bad to encourage and reward decency?
by New Edom » Mon Oct 20, 2014 8:05 pm
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