Ontorisa wrote:Frenline Delpha wrote:Now that's rather unfair. Why should Greg (if he wants to) miss out on an event just because you can't do your job? I fail to see how tis would be his fault.
Obviously you don't have to join either and I wasn't tossing the blame around, but I'm just saying, this whole "discussion" is because you, Greg, and a bunch of other people disliked the way how I chose my life over the IHT and then ripped at me for it. Just because I got sucker punched in the face by numerous jobs I had to participate in during the first two weeks of my school year doesn't mean that I didn't try avoiding to do my job. If anything, I tried getting a post down, I tried to keep the U18 IHT going. But honestly, it was a pretty difficult thing to do.
Besides, in Christmas break, I don't have two opening weeks to help out new kids with.
I'm busy too. I''m working full-time and don't have time to host tournaments. So you know what I do? Not host tournaments. And the one tournament I did host, the Runner Cup (with Santaclausisgodistan), I realized it was too much with my work schedule (and if the Runner Cup is too much, any other tournament certainly would be) but I kept my commitment and finished the tournament. And I learned my lesson and didn't try to host again, and won't for the foreseeable future. If I were truly unable to host, I would have asked someone else to finish and given them the data they needed, but I managed to pull through. It was a minor tournament, much like what you were hosting, so it was only about 20-30 minutes a day. Now, 20-30 minutes of extra work a day seems like a lot when you're already working 8 hours, so don't tell me that because I already know. But it was only for about a week, so I managed. The U18HT was about the same length, or would have been if it finished on time. You could probably have managed it. And if you couldn't have, then you shouldn't have committed to it.
Nobody's blaming you for choosing your life over hosting, but if your schedule is too busy to host, don't try. And if you do try not realizing how much of a commitment it is, either finish the job, learn your lesson, and don't try again until you're able, or, at the very least, ask someone else to do it.
How do we know there's not some other commitment you have over Christmas Break that you've forgotten about? How do we know you're not going to suddenly remember you're going on vacation with your family for two weeks or organizing a ski club trip or suddenly realizing you're doing something else? Nobody would blame you for taking a vacation or having a life, but then you shouldn't commit to hosting while you're away. And frankly, I don't trust you to keep your hosting commitments at this point.