NationStates

Tamsien wrote:

Philjia wrote:
Hrmrmrmrm. Our definitions of sexuality are based on a binary idea of gender, so I don't think any of them are applicable. What you could use are androphile, gynephile, and androgynephile(?) since they only depend on the gender of subject of one's desire.

I see... While I have seen these terms would you mind detailing each one in breif? Sorry if this is too time consuming, hehe.

But to describe my current situation I'm agender although more leaning to male (still not quite sure, no dysphoria that I know of as well, but agender seems to click with me a fair bit). I feel /bi/ due to the inherent (and unfortunate) binary norm (and sake of convenience), but I can go any way really. If the personality sticks and I like you a lot and you like me back just the same unconditionally, then we can roll with the romancing and such.

is that pan or is that still within gender binary

rip

Philjia wrote:

Tamsien wrote:I see... While I have seen these terms would you mind detailing each one in breif? Sorry if this is too time consuming, hehe.

But to describe my current situation I'm agender although more leaning to male (still not quite sure, no dysphoria that I know of as well, but agender seems to click with me a fair bit). I feel /bi/ due to the inherent (and unfortunate) binary norm (and sake of convenience), but I can go any way really. If the personality sticks and I like you a lot and you like me back just the same unconditionally, then we can roll with the romancing and such.

is that pan or is that still within gender binary

rip

Androphile - One who is sexually attracted to males.
Gynephile - One who is sexually attracted to females.
Androgynephile - Not actually a word but logically it would mean one who is sexually attracted to androgynous people.
Panphile - One who is sexually attracted to members of every sex/gender identity.

Philjia wrote:

Tamsien wrote:I see... While I have seen these terms would you mind detailing each one in breif? Sorry if this is too time consuming, hehe.

But to describe my current situation I'm agender although more leaning to male (still not quite sure, no dysphoria that I know of as well, but agender seems to click with me a fair bit). I feel /bi/ due to the inherent (and unfortunate) binary norm (and sake of convenience), but I can go any way really. If the personality sticks and I like you a lot and you like me back just the same unconditionally, then we can roll with the romancing and such.

is that pan or is that still within gender binary

rip

Androphile - One who is sexually attracted to males.
Gynephile - One who is sexually attracted to females.
Androgynephile - Not actually a word but logically it would mean one who is sexually attracted to androgynous people.
Panphile - One who is sexually attracted to members of every sex/gender identity.

Grenartia wrote:

Philjia wrote:
Androphile - One who is sexually attracted to males.
Gynephile - One who is sexually attracted to females.
Androgynephile - Not actually a word but logically it would mean one who is sexually attracted to androgynous people.
Panphile - One who is sexually attracted to members of every sex/gender identity.

Why are we using suffixes that refer to fetishes to describe sexual orientation?

Vassenor wrote:So either there is a technique to tucking that I don't have down or my body is actively resisting it.

Vassenor wrote:The problem is not so much not knowing what to do as feeling like I need eight hands to hold everything in and get it taped down.

...Also why in the name of all that is holy would people suggest using duct tape for this?

Vassenor wrote:The problem is not so much not knowing what to do as feeling like I need eight hands to hold everything in and get it taped down.

...Also why in the name of all that is holy would people suggest using duct tape for this?

Philjia wrote:

Vassenor wrote:The problem is not so much not knowing what to do as feeling like I need eight hands to hold everything in and get it taped down.

...Also why in the name of all that is holy would people suggest using duct tape for this?

That sounds painful.

Maybe you could try doing it from a different position. Are you standing or lying down?

Vassenor wrote:

Philjia wrote:
That sounds painful.

Maybe you could try doing it from a different position. Are you standing or lying down?

Laying down.

Chocolate Rabbit wrote::rofl:

Vassenor wrote:Guess it would also help if the tutorials didn't keep acting like it was easy.

Philjia wrote:

Vassenor wrote:Guess it would also help if the tutorials didn't keep acting like it was easy.

Are there video tutorials?

Val Halla wrote:What are you even on about?

Vassenor wrote:Then again everywhere I look seems to be acting like it's easy so I guess I'm just stupid.

Vassenor wrote:

Philjia wrote:
Are there video tutorials?

I haven't found any.