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Firsthome wrote:
Scow is a whore

The end

FUCKING RIGHT !

Frisiiland wrote:When me and my wife were younger we even reached 1000 for a year, it's down to a little more than 600 per annum. We brag about it to other couples and tell people this fact when they ask why we have so many children. I'm don't get why people think we're weird, it's simply a little less than twice per day on average.

Maybe they think that you're weird for counting each time you have sex for an entire year...

Othelos wrote:

Frisiiland wrote:When me and my wife were younger we even reached 1000 for a year, it's down to a little more than 600 per annum. We brag about it to other couples and tell people this fact when they ask why we have so many children. I'm don't get why people think we're weird, it's simply a little less than twice per day on average.

Maybe they think that you're weird for counting each time you have sex for an entire year...

Pure curiosity is the reason we started counting.

Bahlz wrote:sex is a gift from god to celebrate marriage and children and it shouldn't be abused.

Gotta admit, marriage and children are probably two of the three things that could ruin sex, besides STD's.

When I was a teenager, sex was about... Well, the good feelings. Having started, I never realized I wasn't doing anything for the girls, and I thought anything that wasn't missionary was gross and unnatural and my girlfriends were just messing with me.

But now that I haven't had it in a while, I see it in a wholly different light. Sex is connection. Sex is release. Sex is stimulation. Not just mine, but for my partner. When two people have sex, they are exchanging their tensions. They are sharing in passion. It's about stimulating the other person along with yourself.

Sex is essential in consummate love. It's a part of who we are.

Hence why I'm still a believer in monogamy for the most part because I feel the connection of sex grows with a constant partner.

I didn't enjoy the emptiness and the nothing that came after casual sex...

No cuddling, no compliments, no thinking about girls, no... Well, no love.

So, to all the girls I've had sex with before... Well, I'm sorry. I wish I could have been better.

But, I'm better now.

COME AT ME.

The Rich Port wrote:When I was a teenager, sex was about... Well, the good feelings. Having started, I never realized I wasn't doing anything for the girls, and I thought anything that wasn't missionary was gross and unnatural and my girlfriends were just messing with me.

But now that I haven't had it in a while, I see it in a wholly different light. Sex is connection. Sex is release. Sex is stimulation. Not just mine, but for my partner. When two people have sex, they are exchanging their tensions. They are sharing in passion. It's about stimulating the other person along with yourself.

Sex is essential in consummate love. It's a part of who we are.

Hence why I'm still a believer in monogamy for the most part because I feel the connection of sex grows with a constant partner.

I didn't enjoy the emptiness and the nothing that came after casual sex...

No cuddling, no compliments, no thinking about girls, no... Well, no love.

So, to all the girls I've had sex with before... Well, I'm sorry. I wish I could have been better.

But, I'm better now.

COME AT ME.

Soldati senza confini wrote:

The Rich Port wrote:When I was a teenager, sex was about... Well, the good feelings. Having started, I never realized I wasn't doing anything for the girls, and I thought anything that wasn't missionary was gross and unnatural and my girlfriends were just messing with me.

But now that I haven't had it in a while, I see it in a wholly different light. Sex is connection. Sex is release. Sex is stimulation. Not just mine, but for my partner. When two people have sex, they are exchanging their tensions. They are sharing in passion. It's about stimulating the other person along with yourself.

Sex is essential in consummate love. It's a part of who we are.

Hence why I'm still a believer in monogamy for the most part because I feel the connection of sex grows with a constant partner.

I didn't enjoy the emptiness and the nothing that came after casual sex...

No cuddling, no compliments, no thinking about girls, no... Well, no love.

So, to all the girls I've had sex with before... Well, I'm sorry. I wish I could have been better.

But, I'm better now.

COME AT ME.

Unfortunately, I don't swing... In whatever direction Yoda is.

Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:

Esternial wrote:It depends on who's participating. It's only as meaningful as the relationship you have with whomever you're doing it with. It can either be a meaningful act of love or simply a means to achieve pleasure.

Both are very different kinds of sex, or at least to me they are.

Same opinion.

And also why I'm not experienced. I want the meaningful one first for many personal psychological and philosophical reasons. Most people I know seem to commend it.

My first time was with the person I loved the most at the time (and whom I still love very much). The second person was a hookup on a vacation abroad.

I found casual sex more physically satisfying, but afterwards I felt a bit bothered by it, mainly because I hardly expected it to happen. With my girlfriend (now ex) it was...different.

Calimera II wrote:

Sun Wukong wrote:Urg. You're doing it wrong.

Replace "may I" with "I'm going to" and encourage a positive response ("I'm going to suck your tits" is followed by "yeah, suck my tits," or somesuch.) Not only does it unambiguously clear up consent issues, it's fucking hot.

Uhm.. I think it's pretty dumb to ask permission for everything, if someone doesn't like what his partner is doing he/she will say it and that's it.

The problem, of course, being the possibility of the person who doesn't like the act in question being too afraid to say so, due to fear of being abused. Affirmative consent is best consent.

Page wrote:

Bahlz wrote:sex is a gift from god to celebrate marriage and children and it shouldn't be abused.

Gotta admit, marriage and children are probably two of the three things that could ruin sex, besides STD's.

Marriage is fine, its childfxen that ruin sex, teenagers are the worst. Go to bed god damm it.

I don't want to say that sex is meaningless, but as someone who's probably too young to have sex, I can't say that it currently has any meaning in my life.

Grenartia wrote:

Calimera II wrote:
Uhm.. I think it's pretty dumb to ask permission for everything, if someone doesn't like what his partner is doing he/she will say it and that's it.

The problem, of course, being the possibility of the person who doesn't like the act in question being too afraid to say so, due to fear of being abused. Affirmative consent is best consent.

Which is why it is important to establish a relationship with someone.

Or, you know, establish beforehand that you're there for sex and set clear boundaries as to what to do and not to do.

It means the misses wants to spend my
money

Greater Gaelicland wrote:It means the misses wants to spend my
money

Frisiiland wrote:When me and my wife were younger we even reached 1000 times a year, it's down to a little more than 600 per annum.

That is actually an average of 2.7 times a day, I'll just round it up to 3. How can you manage? It must be that not every sex act you partake in results in ejaculation for yourself.

Sex is love, sex is life.

Oh wait, I'm too young.. DAMNI-

Threlizdun wrote:

Soldati senza confini wrote:
No I mean, I'm okay if me and my partner have casual flings and even bring someone into a threesome/orgy and a casual sexual relationship.

I'm not sure if I am okay with the idea of me and my partner being in romantic relationships with other people.

I've never been in a truly polyamorous relationship, so I can't give perfect advice on the matter, but generally I'd recommend that you and your partner discuss the issue to see what you are comfortable with, and otherwise allow the relationship to develop naturally. If you find yourself desiring a romantic relationship with someone else, you can act on it then, but otherwise you don't need to worry about it.

I have been in a poly relationship before (granted, only one). The thing is, you should obviously always ask before introducing somebody else into the dynamic, even if the person you're bringing in is only going to be involved with you.

...I'm a Virgin...
Though my personal views are this: I, as an individual, am not that interested in Sex or relationships, at least not for anytime soon, though if I ever did, um, "partake" in such an activity, I would do so only with someone I felt extremely Romantically entwined with.
I am 16, by the way.

Etha wrote:...I'm a Virgin...
Though my personal views are this: I, as an individual, am not that interested in Sex or relationships, at least not for anytime soon, though if I ever did, um, "partake" in such an activity, I would do so only with someone I felt extremely Romantically entwined with.
I am 16, by the way.

You're young, so it's understandable.

hell I don't even know how I would prepare for the first time

Frisiiland wrote:

Galloism wrote:I like you. You're silly.

EDIT: I liked the first version better - "filling a womb with your seed" is fucking classic.

Then I change to fuck your wife and fill her womb with your seed.

But I've got things to do... I mean, when you compare the volume of a woman's womb with the amount of ejaculate... That's gonna take awhile.

Soldati senza confini wrote:

Grenartia wrote:
The problem, of course, being the possibility of the person who doesn't like the act in question being too afraid to say so, due to fear of being abused. Affirmative consent is best consent.

Which is why it is important to establish a relationship with someone.

Or, you know, establish beforehand that you're there for sex and set clear boundaries as to what to do and not to do.

Exactly, but even then, seek out affirmative consent.

Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:

Othelos wrote:It only says an addiction to masturbation/overdoing it can cause that.

Again, as I said, everything in moderation, including moderation. Excesses are bad.

And no Arch, no sex with mods.

Nobody loves us.

Scow Creek wrote:May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

Are you performing surgery?